I am single and searching, I am single but not searching, I am single till the day I find. Which one are you?

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Don't Touch That (video)
:giggle: with apologies for the very last word... otherwise fun

*Considers making a joke how the phrase "Don't Touch That" could apply to the topic in more ways than one* 🤔

*Abandons the idea and logs out to get some sleep* 😴
 
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Genesis 2 verse 18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” (ezer kenegdo explanation)
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Read through the thread and saw no one wanted to touch this. Haha.

I'm sure it's been discussed in the past...

I would say I used to wonder the same thing but I now think not.
It has been discussed in many threads, at great length, to exhaustion, and we don't wanna talk about it no more.
 
I am single and not a fan of it. I search from time to time, but find that most guys aren't really interested in a relationship, just a fun time. I'll chat with someone for a bit and find out he's like the other men that show interest in me. So I quit.
 
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Somethings people say a lot to singles are; don't be desperate for marriage, marriage is not what you see, don't say you are searching, You sound desperate when you say you are single. Even here at CC we can't outrightly put-up a post for searching.

Personally I think the society has guilt-trip singles to silence. Due to these we find.
Rebellious singles like me who would not care to say they are single and searching . "And I believe it has nothing desperate in it. It is a fact"

We have those who can't say they are searching so they say, if I find I find, if not ok.

And there are those who are not searching. because they just don't want and that is strength.

So Which one are you?

If you are single searching like some of us tell us then, What Are You Looking For? not necessarily on CC.
How have you been searching?

If you are shy to say you are searching. You can say it here on CC we will not judge you?

i actually am not expecting much from this post. just making a conversation and hoping to have a good time reading. If you also know how I go about searching you can ask me.

Gracias
Hello Edith, I am not searching because I know that I am so Heartbroken and messed up that I don't even know up from down right now. And as much as I would usually share right now about how I feel at the present moment that I text this. It seems that the more I try to share and feel better about things. I Only seem to make it worse and therefore feel so much worse. I have realized that ALL I Can do is Pray Constantly and Trust in the Lord...
 
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I am single and not a fan of it. I search from time to time, but find that most guys aren't really interested in a relationship, just a fun time. I'll chat with someone for a bit and find out he's like the other men that show interest in me. So I quit.
Howdy and welcome to the forum.

What's a whostoni? Is it "Who's Toni?"?
 
A friend of mine at church has a sate this week....first time he has gone on one in 15 years. So I obviously called him out on his loosey goosey ways. Called him a Male whore and everything. :D

Said she was younger than him and only 38.....but I told him that when we get older we take such things more serious....she likely wont cancel...which made him even more nervous.
 
I'm single and not searching, I trust the Lord to unite me with the right man when the time is right.
 
A friend of mine at church has a sate this week....first time he has gone on one in 15 years. So I obviously called him out on his loosey goosey ways. Called him a Male whore and everything. :D

Said she was younger than him and only 38.....but I told him that when we get older we take such things more serious....she likely wont cancel...which made him even more nervous.
First time I've ever seen sate used as a noun.

Still not sure what you mean by it. My best guess, going by context: he has an appointment to meet a woman and copulate. But that guess has only a 37% chance of being right.
 
First time I've ever seen sate used as a noun.

Still not sure what you mean by it. My best guess, going by context: he has an appointment to meet a woman and copulate. But that guess has only a 37% chance of being right.

Oh. I just assumed he meant "date" and it was a typo.... kinda like how I tried to say "If you are a mature Christian" but it came out ""If you ate a mature Christian" 🤔
 
Oh. I just assumed he meant "date" and it was a typo.... kinda like how I tried to say "If you are a mature Christian" but it came out ""If you ate a mature Christian" 🤔
I had a typo....and it closed the edit window before I could fiss it.
 
I am single and not a fan of it. I search from time to time, but find that most guys aren't really interested in a relationship, just a fun time. I'll chat with someone for a bit and find out he's like the other men that show interest in me. So I quit.
I'm a guy and met my wife on this site who is also a member shortly after I joined in 2014. Don't quit.
 
I am single and searching. But I don’t think I’m able to have a relationship.
 
Hello Edith, I am not searching because I know that I am so Heartbroken and messed up that I don't even know up from down right now. And as much as I would usually share right now about how I feel at the present moment that I text this. It seems that the more I try to share and feel better about things. I Only seem to make it worse and therefore feel so much worse. I have realized that ALL I Can do is Pray Constantly and Trust in the Lord...

Yes you are on track.
Remember nothing can take you away from the love of the Lord.

Romans 8: 1 no condemnation for You
Romans 8: 28 God works all things together for your good
Romans 8:31 if God be for you no man, no power including what you are suffering from can be against you
Romans 37-39 You a conqueror in Christ Jesus because of God's immense love for you.
Isaiah 49:10 Fear not He is with you, He is your God.
Isaiah 43:19 God is doing a new thing
job 22:28: You shall declare a thing and it shall come to pass.
please you can read these verses and use them to pray. I just paraphrased
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Yes you are on track.
Remember nothing can take you away from the love of the Lord.

Romans 8: 1 no condemnation for You
Romans 8: 28 God works all things together for your good
Romans 8:31 if God be for you no man, no power including what you are suffering from can be against you
Romans 37-39 You a conqueror in Christ Jesus because of God's immense love for you.
Isaiah 49:10 Fear not He is with you, He is your God.
Isaiah 43:19 God is doing a new thing
job 22:28: You shall declare a thing and it shall come to pass.
please you can read these verses and use them to pray. I just paraphrased
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Thank You @Edith This Really Helped Me!!! I Actually got on here to reach out and say Hello to you because I haven't seen you on in a while. And I saw your post. 🫂