I'm sorry to hear this Mike especially since you've decided to stop talking to your family just because they have some icons hanging on their walls.
But this approach is textbook Protestant and if this gives you peace then go for it. This is why i don't see anything wrong with denominations because everyone finds their purpose based on their interpretation, culture and time.
And i'm in no position to say who goes to Hell or Heaven.
So the OP or you, don't have anything new (at least for me) to learn here because this approach is standard for some denoms.
But this approach is textbook Protestant and if this gives you peace then go for it. This is why i don't see anything wrong with denominations because everyone finds their purpose based on their interpretation, culture and time.
And i'm in no position to say who goes to Hell or Heaven.
So the OP or you, don't have anything new (at least for me) to learn here because this approach is standard for some denoms.