Mike winger has an amazing video on this, unfortunately he doesn't name his sources, though he doesn't tend to. He does however show that he values truth, so I trust him despite this. You may want to give this a watch
The studies I've personally found, I can not say aren't skewed. It seems that I can not trust any side, given how politically charged the topic/s are regarding comparison between Homosexual raised children and Heterosexual raised children.
Many people even quoting their own organization/s as their source! how biased.... I can not see validity in that.
Despite having a confusing amount of obviously biased opinions/studies on both sides, I can weigh some things from what I have seen in society. Weigh these kindly and honestly please. Also note in not especially educated.
Should we allow homosexuals to marry ?
No, I do not believe we should by Biblical standards. Marriage is between one man, and one woman for the purpose of procreation and unity. Our Job as a Married couple is to model the relationship between Christ and the Church. Two same sex people, can not model this relationship. Governmentally, Marriage is just a legal agreement for tax/legal reasons. Governmentally in most cases, marriage can happen between two adults consensually and there be no problems. This cheapens the idea of marriage. What about faithfulness and self control? sacrifice? love without merit? unending loyalty and true union? These things matter. What is marriage without true commitment? our soul longs for more. I do not believe Gay people to be the most faithful to any of their partner/s, whether in a open relationship or not. What values do we want to encourage in this society? unfaithfulness, recklessness, self impulsiveness, adultery, pride, sexual fluidity? these things break up the marriage, and create reckless relationships. It is unfortunate. Biblically I stand up and say no, without the Bible in mind, I do not think it is good for our society either way.
- Should we allow them to adopt children ?
No, I do not believe we should. Through nature we can observe that families have a male and female partnership, I believe that this is very crucial for development as men and women are very different. A woman can not tutor a boy into the ways of being a man, neither can a man teach a girl these things about womanhood. Not only that, men tend to be more logical, goal focused and rational. Less sensitive. Woman tend to be more emotional, more sensitive and social, more nurturing. Gay people tend to act opposite to their biological sex, I think having two of the same sex raise a child, whether lesbian or gay can not teach the children good identifying roles about their biological gender. Not only this, if we take what we see with unfaithfulness and many partners within Gay relationships, that is a very unstable upbringing of a child, who is very impressionable and will grow up to believe that many varieties of partners is okay. Which we know is not good for anyone. Think Aids, for the homosexual community, and even for straight people, abortions. I have also heard it rumored that Same sex lead families are more prone to sexual misconduct within the family, children often being abused as a higher risk. Some sources say otherwise. It is hard to know. From what we can see however, the LGBTQ community is indoctrinating children quite early, and teaching them sexual things they ought not to know/see yet. Pride month highly immodest(I have seen nudity within the crowds/people making out), and unfortunately parents of all kinds take their kids to see. This should not be.
- Is it bad for children raised in such family constellations ?
I believe it is for everything I've said so far. Weigh what I say, take some or leave some. It is hard to prove that it is wrong in a secular society because without God we are held to no objective moral standing outside of our own wants and desires. With God in mind, biblically I can prove why I believe it's bad, however that's not helpful for someone who may want a more objective view. The studies I've seen are largely bias and i can not prove anything. I can only go off of what I believe personally.
Also my grammar and stuff is bad.. forgive me for this please as I try but i do not have the patience to read over and correct forever.
God bless you my friend.