There are a lot of opinions about homosexuality. Among christians, there is a diversity of opinions on these matters.
We have liberal christians, and we have conservative christians. Discussions among christians are often related to if homsexuality is a sin or not a sin (and sometimes; if it's considered a sin - how serious this sin is....) However, there are some questions a state or a nation have to answer and act to accordingly:
- Should we allow homosexuals to marry ?
- Should we allow them to adopt children ?
- Is it bad for children raised in such family constellations ?
So what do you think about these questions ?
U cannot b an active homosexual and b a Christian , it's as simple as that . I have known celibate homosexual Christians , they abstain from sexual relationships because they r Christians and they understand and accept that their desires r totally incomparable with Christianity . As for those who r not Christians , they can and do , do what they want in this life as they r a law into themselves and they don't answer to anyone other than their own desires . At this time , it is not our place to judge them .
So , what does one do , as a Christian , when a beloved family member , although an atheist , someone that u have known and loved for a very long time , a genuinely nice person , suddenly starts a same sex relationship ? Do we stop loving them ? I'm not asking , should I warn them their behaviour is wrong in God's eyes , they r atheist so that's not gonna make a difference to them . I'm asking , what do u do , as a Christian , when a dear , kind , family member , who u love very much , starts a same sex relationship ? How do u handle it , how do balance your love for them and your sorrow at their choice ? I cannot stop loving someone just like that , it's not a switch that I can just turn off . All I can do is wait in hope , that it might b a passing phase . Where there is life there is always hope . Hope that they will turn away from this lifestyle . Hope that eventually , they will c the Light. I can't cut them off because maybe , just maybe , I will help them to c that light , I can't do that if I cut them off can I ?
As Christians we r to admonish each other and help each other to stay on track , when dealing with atheist it's a whole different ball game , we don't want to push them away , we want to help to bring them into the Truth and that can b a very long process , requiring patience and commitment .