Things are neither Calvinistic nor Pelagian. The Bible does not plainly or openly teach a Calvinistic view where God forcefully regenerates a person against their own free will, compelling them to believe as if they had no real choice, while at the same time allowing others to perish even though He could have just as easily changed their will to be saved as well. Nor does Scripture support a fully Pelagian idea that man, by his own free will, chooses God entirely on his own, apart from any divine drawing, the opening of the heart, illumination, or conviction of sin (see John 12:32; Acts 16:14; 2 Corinthians 4:4; John 16:8).
The missing or middle ground of understanding lies in what could be described as Temporary Enlightenment or Enablement, which is called Prevenient Grace in Arminianism, a term I believe does not fully capture what is actually taking place, unlike Temporary Enlightenment.
I believe there is a blindness placed by Satan upon man in this life, preventing people from seeing spiritual truths. Yet I also see in Scripture that God draws men spiritually (John 12:32), opens the heart (Acts 16:14), illuminates the mind (2 Corinthians 4:4), and convicts of sin (John 16:8), enabling their will, heart, and understanding to receive the gospel. God frees their will from Satan’s blindness and grants a spiritual enablement so they can either accept the gospel or reject it. The gospel message is that Christ died for our sins, was buried, and rose again the third day for our salvation. Otherwise, 2 Thessalonians 2:10 and many other verses would make no sense. That verse says they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved. They perish because they received not the love of the truth, not because God refused to regenerate them, as Calvinism teaches.
In Calvinism, the gospel does not actually save in the way Scripture teaches. It is not through believing the message of 1 Corinthians 15:1–4 that a person is saved, but rather through being one of the unconditionally chosen whom God decides to regenerate. In this system, God must first change or force the heart to believe, meaning faith in the gospel is not what brings salvation, but is instead the result of already being saved. They are considered saved in the very moment of regeneration, or being born again, before they even believe, and are therefore not saved as a direct result of believing the gospel message. This teaching removes the true purpose of the gospel message, which is meant to bring salvation to those who hear and believe it.
After a person has been temporarily enabled or enlightened by God, having their will freed from the blindness of the devil, they are given the genuine freedom to either accept the gospel or reject it. Scripture, in fact, is filled with passages that affirm man’s free will in choosing God (which would be under God's spiritual enlightenment).
Free Will Choice involving the Lord in the Bible:
#1.
Joshua 24:15 KJV -
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Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve"
#2.
Matthew 11:28 KJV -
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Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."
#3.
John 7:17 KJV -
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If anyone wills to do His will, he shall know concerning the doctrine, whether it is from God."
#4.
John 7:37 KJV -
"If anyone thirsts,
let him come to Me and drink."
#5.
Acts 2:38 KJV -
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Repent, and let everyone of you be baptized"
#6.
Acts 3:19 KJV -
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Repent therefore and
be converted"
#7.
Acts 16:31 KJV -
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Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved"
#8.
Acts 17:30 KJV -
"but now commands all men everywhere to
repent"
#9.
Revelation 22:17 KJV -
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Whoever wills, let him
take the water of life
freely."
#10.
Genesis 4:7 KJV -
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If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and
if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him."
#11.
Revelation 22:17 KJV
"And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely."
#12.
Luke 13:34 KJV -
"O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, which killest the prophets, and stonest them that are sent unto thee; how often would I have gathered thy children together, as a hen doth gather her brood under her wings, and ye would not!
The NLT says, "but you wouldn’t let me."
If Calvinism were true, it would imply that God has the power to simply click His fingers and save anyone He wants, turning them into mindless puppets who do His will perfectly or do only good. But that is not what we see in reality or in Scripture. If God truly exercised this kind of power over the human will, why would He not just click His fingers and force everyone to be saved against their will and make them do only good? This is why Calvinism is not only unbiblical but also morally problematic.
I believe in God-enabled free will. You cannot believe or reject the gospel without God's enablement. This is why the statement that “the work of God is to believe on Him whom He has sent” is entirely true. One cannot believe without God's enablement to see the truth. This, of course, happens according to God's choosing and timing in the right moments of a person’s life. But this enablement is not a forced regeneration or a hostile spiritual takeover of the will. If that were the case, a person would live in perfect obedience to God's will and do only good, for God's will is always holy, good, and loving.
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