Oh, I know exactly why this is a common representation of Reformed thought. And I am not deflecting. I stated a fact. Look, I understand the hostility. I understand the concern. Truly. I felt the same way for a long time. But until you make a concerted effort to understand what is actually being said and taught, you'll continue to misrepresent them. I have made a clear point to highlight assumptions both sides make about each other, and I stand by that. Assumptions are gnarly, vicious, and divisive. We MUST constantly check ourselves and our arguments for them.
However, I don't know you, and I don't believe in hiding behind a screen to attack others. I'm just here to converse, encourage, provide my own convictions on these topics, and sharpen and be sharpened. I'm not here to argue or put down others. Unless it's heresy. But even then, I won't attack the person; I will only attack the ideology.
Mr. Reformed Theology himself states Reformed theology is defined by "regeneration precedes faith."
Of course he forgets to mention that this is nowhere explicitly taught in scripture, it is a doctrine built solely by implication while suppressing the teachings throughout scripture which clearly state that faith (man's response) is first and then regeneration.