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For those who have the delightful StanDupe on ignore:

Many of seoulsearch's posts, and my own most recent post, were in reply to good ole Stan's kindly and gentle remonstrances. Just in case you were wondering "Well! Where did THAT come from?"
 
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I’m new to the thread and need to thread carefully…but naturally, I’m not the one to bite my tongue, so when I have found out what the thread is about I’m right at it.
 
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For those who have the delightful StanDupe on ignore:

Many of seoulsearch's posts, and my own most recent post, were in reply to good ole Stan's kindly and gentle remonstrances. Just in case you were wondering "Well! Where did THAT come from?"

Would that be ‘Stand Up’ or ‘Stand Duped’?
 
The person who has been through tough times that God helped him overcome, and so now he seems to believe that everyone else needs nothing less than his own best tough love -- and is in sin if they don't achieve what he claims to.

If not following what the Lord says, one should repent and get back on track.



I'm thankful that you remind me of what I never want to be

Yeah, apparently some people don't want walk in and accept the whole counsel of the Lord and that's too bad for them as they will not be walking in the freedom darkness that the Lord has for them. Sad.



Throughout the years, we've had many sinless perfectionist-type advocates come through the site.

Who said anything about being perfect in the literal sense? You are imagining things.

I'm advocating for walking in what God's Word says about Christians.

You apparently are advocating for being a cherry picker that rejects portions of God's Word rather than being full gospel accepting the whole counsel of God. That's nothing more than carnal minded religion that leaves people living far far below what the Lord has for them IN Christ.



Do I always get things right? Absolutely not

Very obviously not seeing you refuse to accept the whole counsel of the Lord.



And if I help anyone else from some of the church-based anxiety, depression, and hopelessness I've had throughout my life because of these types of approaches, I can certainly going to try.

It's sad to see people living under anxiety, depression, and hopelessness un-necessarily not knowing how to abide IN Christ and walk from from this darkness. That;s too bad for them.
 
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Would that be ‘Stand Up’ or ‘Stand Duped’?

I quit being duped when the Lord taught me how to obtain the promises in His Word enabling me to partake of His divine nation having escaped the corruption that is in this world thru canal minded desires the Lord told us about in His Word (2 Peter 1:4)

We know who the tares are when they make fun of and otherwise reject what God's Word teaches clueless-doh.gif
 
I quit being duped when the Lord taught me how to obtain the promises in His Word enabling me to partake of His divine nation having escaped the corruption that is in this world thru canal minded desires the Lord told us about in His Word (2 Peter 1:4) We know who the tares are when they make fun of and otherwise reject what God's Word teaches View attachment 281666

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Yep, looks like your inability to read my last few posts and find the scripture reference that I posted is causing you to be left out.Sorry pal, that's how the old ball bounces sometimes.

Yeah Luther and Calvin both got played by a low level devil.

Those boys weren't the sharpest tools in the shed ya know.

All they had to do with go back to God's Word, but they followed the wisdom of man instead.

It's a cautionary tale for the rest of us to not depart from what God says in His Word.

As they cause all kinds of un-necessary problems for themselves and others due to their inability to choose to pay attention

Lots of people die early and cause others to die because they aren't paying attention.

Not to mention there is no evidence in scripture about being slothful draws people closer to the Lord.

You should see the scripture references I just posted rather than continuing in ignorance, arrogance and criticism.

You really should accept God's Word over what you see and feel and grow up spiritually and walk like a man leaving childish things behind.

Jesus was never clumsy because he never once fell short of God's perfection... so He is not like you. What the clumsy people should be doing is being like Jesus and stop being clumsy
I sure hope these clumsy bumpkins aren't driving cars or in any position to handle machinery as they are going to get somebody killed or cause themselves to be killed or maimed.
These people are a problem going somewhere to happen and kinda sounds like some of them really should be institutionalized for their own safety and for the safety of innocent people around them
Some people refuse to accept the whole counsel of the Lord so they get mad and leave because they cannot stand anyone telling them the Truth of God's Word. Y
You advocating for satan's lies instead of God's Word is getting old. Stop it! View attachment 281528

That's what you're claiming because you refuse to put God's Word IN yo mouth!
You seem stressed. Are you OK or do you need to be institutionalized again? View attachment 281525


The Bible says to test the spirits, and that we will know someone by their fruits.

You've left your fruits, and the spirit behind them, all over the forum.


Disclaimer: the links to threads sometimes don't work, but for anyone wanting to read the actual thread and its full context, it's in the Bible Discussion Forum.

Yes, some of the quotes have been clipped for brevity, but hopefully the links for those should take you back to the original posts.
 

Sadly, some of those people are walking by sight and not by faith as they have not learned how to be over comers thru God's Word.

We are to walk by faith no by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).


The Bible says to test the spirits, and that we will know someone by their fruits.

And sadly those not accepting the whole counsel of the Lord such as yourself have corrupt fruit.

You disagree with those accepting and walking in the whole counsel of God which is your right but in doing so you are influencing others to walk in defeat. Hope you get the deliverance you so desperately need.
 
Sadly, some of those people are walking by sight and not by faith as they have not learned how to be over comers thru God's Word. We are to walk by faith no by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).
And sadly those not accepting the whole counsel of the Lord such as yourself have corrupt fruit.
You disagree with those accepting and walking in the whole counsel of God which is your right but in doing so you are influencing others to walk in defeat. Hope you get the deliverance you so desperately need.

Paul tells us clearly:

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I fully understand that you thoroughly believe for your own self that what you say to people is in love, and to reject your message is to reject God.

That's between you and Him.


In the meantime, don't you worry about me.

You seem to be a big fan of telling people they need to be institutionalized.

Fortunately, the institution I reside in believes in allowing us poor, unfortunately souls regular "Enrichment" times -- during which, I write these posts.
 
Fortunately, the institution I reside in believes in allowing us poor, unfortunately souls

See there, statements like that are in opposition to what the Lord says in His Word concerning born again believers.

You need to grow up spiritually and accept what God says and ditch the wisdom of mankind
 
See there, statements like that are in opposition to what the Lord says in His Word concerning born again believers.

You need to grow up spiritually and accept what God says and ditch the wisdom of mankind

Hmm.

I guess you don't understand humor, either?

I grew up in an area famous for racial tensio, and between that and my time of writing inmates who had life without parole, usually for murder, I've heard a lot of "suggestions."

Some of these inmates were brilliant, but had misapplied their talents.

And you've never heard criticisms down to the bone like the ones from inmates with absolutely nothing to lose. Especially from the ones who know the Bible from every direction because they literally study it 24/7.

I used to lay their letters out on my table, following the example of Hezekiah, and ask God what to say back.

My point is, I've grown up with insults and criticisms of all kinds all my life.

Now I look back and thank God for the times when inmates shred my emotional, psychological, and spiritual stances to bits, and taughte just to stand, because any other criticisms I get now just don't seem all that meaningful by comparison.

Well lookie there...

It's feeding time at my institution!

Can't miss out on the best time of the day. 😎
 
Thank You... PSALM 130 Is Really Helping me. It was part of the Prayer Meeting Last Night.
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Psalm 130 v 1-3 Out of the depths I cry to You, O LORD! 2O Lord, hear my voice; let Your ears be attentive to my plea for mercy. 3If You, O LORD, kept track of iniquities, then who, O Lord, could stand?
 
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The Bible says to test the spirits, and that we will know someone by their fruits.

You've left your fruits, and the spirit behind them, all over the forum.


Disclaimer: the links to threads sometimes don't work, but for anyone wanting to read the actual thread and its full context, it's in the Bible Discussion Forum.

Yes, some of the quotes have been clipped for brevity, but hopefully the links for those should take you back to the original posts.
I wonder why the links don't work? .:unsure::eek::unsure:

https://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/gods-view-on-clumsiness.221025/
 
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See there, statements like that are in opposition to what the Lord says in His Word concerning born again believers.

You need to grow up spiritually and accept what God says and ditch the wisdom of mankind
You're dancing with a heavyweight, dude. You're going to need more than simple jabs and uppercuts to deal with this one. seoulsearch grew up in this fighting ring.

Unfortunately you don't have any but the most simplistic fighting moves. You're never going to be able to last, going toe to toe with her.

I mean really...
You need to grow up spiritually and accept what God says and ditch the wisdom of mankind
You think a short, quick jab like that is going to have any effect?

You're going to have to reach way back into the Bible and deliver a proper haymaker to stagger her at all. And I've never seen you do it before, and I don't think you even have it in you.
 
With the Lord it only takes a few moments to arrive at a place of victory.

ALL things are possible with the Lord Jesus Christ.
That much is true.

It might only take a moment, but the timescale to reach that point can take an age. God is long-suffering in view of our waywardness.

Hence the speaking of God's Word, which is where the answers are that people in distress need.
We have a High Priest who is touched by our weaknesses (sumpatheó: sympathise, have compassion, to suffer with) Hebrews 4:15

When the Lord of Glory stands at someone's door and knocks, the empathy and compassion of those who've already answered the call from the Master of the house can help set the table.

Line for line and letter for letter is all well and good, but showing concern and fellow feeling for someone who is despairing will aid with oiling the wheels for change.

Boot camping people, individually and collectively, seems as clumsy to me as a man who can't possibly be walking in the Spirit, because he cracked his head off a garage door during the week. The irony, eh.
 
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I guess you don't understand humor, either?

Why joke around about what God says in His Word.

There's plenty of other topics to joke about.




When the Lord of Glory stands at someone's door and knocks, the empathy and compassion of those who've already answered the call from the Master of the house can help set the table.

But He does not leave them living in defeat.

Of course one has to turn their back on their old life, their old way of thinking and doing and instead agree with what the Lord says about them as being a born again child of God.

That's what many are not doing. Instead they are regurgitating their problems to one another over and over again which causes their problems to be stronger and stronger

God's Word calls this sowing to the flesh which causes corruption.




Line for line and letter for letter is all well and good, but....

I'd be more interested in talking to people about how to get up out of the gutter.

I', not interested in laying down and crying with them in the gutter about how bad things are.

That's exactly how people never grow spiritually and never get delivered out of their trouble.

What many are offended at is some folks won't join them in their disrepair because misery love company ya know.
 
Hmm. I guess you don't understand humor, either?
Why joke around about what God says in His Word. There's plenty of other topics to joke about.

I'm not joking about God's Word.

And I agree, there are plenty of other things to joke about -- like people who believe in bringing others to the love of God by telling them they should be institutionalized.

I myself, find that approach humorous -- and humor tends to be my typical reaction to most situations.

If you tell people they belong in institutions, well, I will gladly joke about being in an institution -- and happily make myself the butt of the joke.
 
That's what many are not doing. Instead they are regurgitating their problems to one another over and over again which causes their problems to be stronger and stronger

I'd be more interested in talking to people about how to get up out of the gutter.

I', not interested in laying down and crying with them in the gutter about how bad things are.

That's exactly how people never grow spiritually and never get delivered out of their trouble.

What many are offended at is some folks won't join them in their disrepair because misery love company ya know.
If you've been where they are, and want them to be where you say you now are, the despondent are fertile ground.

The better hope isn't only to be illustrated, it needs to be demonstrated. Which necessitates supporting the weak. Consoling and encouraging the faint-hearted and feebleminded; being patient with all.

If you believe that's to no avail, there's nothing more to be said.
 
You're dancing with a heavyweight, dude. You're going to need more than simple jabs and uppercuts to deal with this one. seoulsearch grew up in this fighting ring.
Unfortunately you don't have any but the most simplistic fighting moves. You're never going to be able to last, going toe to toe with her.
I mean really...
You think a short, quick jab like that is going to have any effect?
You're going to have to reach way back into the Bible and deliver a proper haymaker to stagger her at all. And I've never seen you do it before, and I don't think you even have it in you.

Lol.

While I appreciate your endorsement, @Lynx, I am by no means of any kind of spiritual significance. If nothing else, I'm just stubborn, and I apologize to @33Michael33 for dragging this thread off the rails and over a cliff. But I am concerned about those who might not know how to stand up for themselves in these situations, and I want to let people know that you do NOT have to listen to everyone who recites Scripture to you. Sift it out for any wisdom you can glean -- but throw out the rest, such as the personal insults.

I'm just a tiny little guppy at best, but I can tell you about the times when God put me in the ring with true giants.

Inmates often told me they talked openly to me because they knew I was talking to them on my own time and on my own dime, not for the media, and not for a paycheck. And my rule for myself was, I never asked about their cases -- unless they brought it up -- because I didn't want to treat them like just another case number.

One in particular tried to use every spiritual manipulation tactic in the book. He started out by telling me I only did these things for the praise of men and not really for God. I was very young and very naive and struck to the heart. I took his letter to my mentors and asked them to pray with me that God would convict me of anything I was doing wrong. Of course, my poor mentors didn't want me talking to inmates in the first place, but that's another story.

So what it eventually led up to was him asking me for money. When I declined (believing this was from God,) he asked me "how I had fallen so far that I had allowed Satan to fill and harden my heart to refuse to help someone in need" (as the Bible tells us to do.) He told me I was refusing to obey God, because after all, he said, "If we have a need, God tells us to ask." (He would then list a page of Scripture to endorse his cause.) This guy was genius level intelligent, and I'd be hard-pressed to bet against him if he went up against any modern-day Pharisee or Sadducee.

His own lawyer, with whom I had the privilege of speaking to, told me he would have made a "brilliant" attorney on his own if not for his convictions.

Now, I knew I was up against a T-Rex. This guy was 100 times my size in every way -- intellect, Biblical knowledge, and life experience. I was a piece of chewing gum under a table by comparison. So I put his letter on my table, page by page, and PRAYED like my life depended on it. And I believe God gave me an answer.

I wrote back and said, "Yes, God tells us to ask. But He told me that in this case, asking doesn't mean you're supposed to ask ME. God is saying it means you're supposed to ask HIM."

Yes, I know that sounds like a cop-out, but I'd donated to inmates' cases before, and this situation had a lot of shady details to where I knew God was telling me, "Stand. But don't cater to him."

God taught more in that one exchange than what I had learned over years in church.

There was another inmate I used to write who was in with LWOP (life without parole) for murder, and his track record in prison included strangling someone to the point of permanent brain damage (he would have been dead if someone hadn't stopped the fight,) and nearly decapitating another with a homemade shiv (knife.) Now, I should also mention that I don't know the full context of these situations. He was young and good-looking, and it made me question myself as to what lengths I would go to in order to protect myself in a situation like that.

But he said he was a Christian and believed God was giving him another chance. I went to that prison to sit at a table and talk with him in person, because we all "know" God forgives us. But what does it look like when you've had your hands on someone to the point where you feel the life draining out of their body, then repent and believe that God has truly forgiven you?

I never judge the state of someone's salvation -- I believe only God can do that -- but I do pay attention to fruit, as God tells us to do. But I am always interested in the testimonies of people's own walks (whether real or for show -- that's for God to know,) because it greatly affects the formation of my own journey with God.

I asked God once who I should take seriously when it comes to criticism, and He said, "If someone has proven they're willing to bleed WITH you (help carry your burdens,) those are the ones you can trust."

The thing about being stubborn and strong-willed is, you tend to make friends with other (lovingly) stubborn and strong-willed people. People who aren't afraid to call a spade a spade in front of you, even if it's at your own expense. And believe me, the ones closest to me have no hesitations about doing that.

Now sure, some things and some words still get to me, of course.

But unless it's from someone who's shown they can bleed with me through the hard times, or unless they give off the same kind of energy of a life without parole inmate who studies the Bible 24/7 and knows how to pick apart every last nook and cranny of who you are and what you think are your beliefs -- most other "corrections" directly aimed at me just aren't going to catch much of my attention -- except perhaps as the center of my next joke.
 
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