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I've had depression 30 years, so I know what it's like to want to try and hide from how you feel. And in that time I've learned how important it is to accept whats going on inside you, so you can deal with it better. It's often suggested to give yourself windows to let yourself feel negative...

Your daily life is filled with pagan traditions, do your speak out about those too? Do you engage in those? I've yet to see a single anti-holiday ranter follow through and take action against all the pagan traditions that are daily around them, or even they involve themselves in.

Really this is more about grieving the end of a relationship than standard loneliness. This form of loneliness only serves to highlight the void left in your life after the breakup. So my advice is first, don't be surprised by this feeling. Eight years could feel similar to a divorce and divorce...

It seems a lack of faith. Faith is trusting and believing something without evidence of its truth. Telling people they lack faith is not something I normally do, but in this case it seems the most accurate. You said yourself all that you believe needs to be done to be saved, but when it comes to...

Who says reconciling has to mean changing someone? To reconcile could also mean to learn to understand and accept that person. The 5 Love Languages present this well. If one spouse sees physical affection as showing love, and another spouse things giving gifts is an act of love, both will...

Singles is border line dating forum? Since when? Why wouldn't this go in the Suggestions forum instead? Though there's a 99.9% chance it won't be utilized either way as adding new forums is not really something Robo's interested in, apparently. Doesn't the Misc forum already function as a...

Likely this all stems from your mother's bipolar. It's not uncommon for bipolar people to have abusive behavior. And if your father was an alcoholic he likely finds it easier to cope with things by siding with her, rather than battling her. And perhaps he's undiagnosed with a mental illness as...

Granted it can hurt a males ego with such comments, but if he's That hurt then you have to see that for what it is. A red flag about his character. Once you explain and apologize, it shouldn't take him long to get over it. He's either egotistical and can't handle any comments where he's not...

I hate spicy and beer. Or any alcohol for that matter. What you call coffee I call devils urine. My woman's got some weight on her and she still looks good to me. Woo woo! 😁😉 That's 2 to 1. 😜 Maybe I'll take my Mars Orange Kia Soul and do a victory lap, wearing a seat belt of course. 😁

I Hate cooking, so her expectations better be Low. An oven pizza is my idea of cooking. I heated up a can of soup a few weeks ago. First time I've used a burner in years. As a teen I often had to make my own dinners. I did some cooking then, since it was that or starve. But I still hated it.

I Corinthians 12 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. 28 And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. 29 Are all...

As a teen I labeled myself a metal head. As an adult I still do. I was never really labeled anything by others in any sort of consistent way. As a teen, where I think people are most likely to be labeled, I confused people too much for them to try to label me. I was a Christian and a metal...

I was a Christian 30 years and remained that way through a lot of struggles. People whose faith I felt was much stronger than mine told me they didn't know how I kept my faith. But eventually it did fall. So the same risk exists for your friend. Not saying it will for sure. Each person is...

Overkill much?

I'd say it depends on your intentions. Over the years I've messaged women and its been rare any of them were bothered by it. But I also had a specific reason, other than romantic intentions, to message them. Perhaps a question from something they posted, or to offer advice, when it seemed the...

So what option would you use in that situation then? What other way is there?

I actually have had the same question for years now. And it, along with other things, toppled my faith. Simply put I stopped asking for people to answer that question. Because no one came close to even giving me pause on their answer, let alone resolving it. It was actually rare that any...

The difficulty in answering this is that what each person thinks of when they hear love, varies. And those different types may have different answers. A new couple may often not feel love is a choice. They met this person and "just fell in love". To them it was automatic. That same couple 10...

Basically the 1% richest people. They supposedly have a combined wealth equal to or greater than the other 99%.