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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    Definitely won't do that. What I learned about this woman my cousin's into is she's a nurse and can sing, which is good and nothing wrong with either one. However, she doesn't do anything except wait until he gets to the place where she sings so she gets more money off and talk to him (a little)...
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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    You're probably right. He just keeps telling me about this woman, and I should just tell him "hey, drop this woman and consider talking to the one at the ballroom because (x, y, and z) and she seems really nice." Sure, she may not go for him, but wouldn't hurt to find out.
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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    That's where I'm at today, and I think that's where a lot of single men (and women for that matter) need to be. I have a cousin who's in his 50's. He is saved, a very nice guy, and wants to do fun activities. Problem is he's not letting things play out. There's a woman he likes and he thinks she...
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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    Consider giving ballroom a second look. I'm meeting a lot of good people and they're really helping me out. Here are the styles I've learned with their basics so far: -waltz -rumba -tango -merenge -bachata -cha-cha -salsa -swing -east coast swing -fox traut Again, basics. Right now, only thing...
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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    To be honest, I have had a few ideas about it. Nothing's in stone, but I have had some plans on making it happen. One of the ways to serve is to serve others. My second job is working with the special needs community. I had originally worked for an agency my brother owned part time, and just...
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    Something good I learned and am learning about relationships.

    First off, if anyone remembers reading my last post from about a month ago, I was down in the dumps. I was hoping to start something with this woman, and, long story short, nothing came out of it. Anyway, since then, I've been debating on pursuing a single's life for as long as I live. Sounds...
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    Considering giving up pursuing a relationship with another woman

    Thing is I knew her fairly well from church and we have talked. Even where I work we talked. So this isn't over one woman. It's just I have been in relationships that I thought would go somewhere but, in the end, don't. And where I'm at now, for the first time in my adult life, I am not...
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    Considering giving up pursuing a relationship with another woman

    Don't worry, you're no who I was referring to. You're good
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    Considering giving up pursuing a relationship with another woman

    I appreciate the advice being given, fully, especially to those offering encouragement because it's helping. Now, to those who giving their two cents (but, quite frankly, sounds like you're putting me down rather than giving real advice because you haven't offered any yet nor any encouragement)...
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    Considering giving up pursuing a relationship with another woman

    Thanks. I think part of my problem is I over think things too easily. I know there are good Christian women out there that would like to meet a Christian guy. I thought at the time that a pastor’s daughter, who still attends church and whose family is good, would be a good place to start. But...
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    Dear Ladies: You Can’t Custom Order A Husband Like You Can A Starbucks Drink

    This is a single guy speaking here, and if ALL THIS is what many of today's women want, I can pretty much kiss finding someone goodbye. That's WAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY more than what I, or any normal guy, can offer. Right now, as much as I want to find a good godly woman, I'm in a spot where opting...
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    Considering giving up pursuing a relationship with another woman

    I've recently been led on by a woman that I was interested in. Long story short, I thought she was single and had a level of interest in me, so I asked her out but she gave me a half baked answer. I later discovered, while I was working she has a boyfriend (and one that people thought she broke...
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    Need some advice on how to court a woman I've known for awhile

    Thanks for the advice, everyone! This has been helpful. There’s a good chance I’ll see this woman Sunday, so I’m hoping to catch up with her and get the ball rolling. I won’t go too fast, but I’m thinking something simple to start. Nothing over the top, like one of our coffee shops here in town...
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    Need some advice on how to court a woman I've known for awhile

    Good ideas. Coffee would be good. Now, normally, I would have great confidence around people, and the last girl I dated, I never had a problem approaching her and asking if she wanted to do something. This one, well, you can say I'm a little shy. I shouldn't be, but that's how I feel, right...
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    Need some advice on how to court a woman I've known for awhile

    Let me add some context to this before I get into the meat of this: I asked for advise on here a while ago about a woman I dated this past year in late Summer (ask for details later about it later). For those that might remember me, I thought things were going to work out, but ultimately did...
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    Advice to the single ladies out there on finding a romantic relationship with a guy (coming from a guy)

    Just so we're clear, I am a 34 year old single man. Never been married, no kids (I'm a virgin), I am a Christian, and, yes, I just got out of a relationship not too long ago. Currently, I'm not seeing anyone and I don't know when I will. Can be today, tomorrow, next week, a month, a year, years...
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    Question on talking about faith during a date and taking it slow

    True, and I get parents want to make sure their kids don't get hurt, physically, mentally, nor spiritually, but at some point they have to let their kids find out on their own. With my parents, even though their intentions are good, they try to basically say "this is how it is, don't question...
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    Question on talking about faith during a date and taking it slow

    There is more information that I need to mention because it is relevant to this topic (and let's refer to the woman as "A"): First off, to answer one of the questions earlier on, I'm 34 years old and she's 33. Her family and mine have actually known each other for years (through my older...
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    Question on talking about faith during a date and taking it slow

    Okay, for some context: I am currently dating and talking to a woman for nearly the past month, before that little snip bits through private messages but nothing date related. I actually took her out on our first date nearly a month ago. She enjoyed because the next day she messaged me on how...