Do you not believe in the Sovereignty of God? Do you not believe that God is all powerful? Do you not believe that which Scripture says is True?
Isa 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create calamity: I the LORD do all these things.
Isa 45:8 Drop down, ye heavens, from above, and let the skies pour down righteousness: let the earth open, and let them bring forth salvation, and let righteousness spring up together; I the LORD have created it.
Isa 45:9 Woe unto him that strives with his Maker! Let the potsherd strive with the potsherds of the earth. Shall the clay say to him that fashioneth it, What makest thou? or thy work, He hath no hands?
If God had desired or decreed that all would be saved - then all would be saved. Who do you think could stop HIM from carrying out His will?
Isa_46:10 declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times things that are not yet done; saying, My counsel shall stand, and I will do all my pleasure;
And why do you pit one verse of Scripture against another? You were given Eph. 1:11 and you replied with 2 Pet. 3:9. Do you think that one verse of Scripture can nullify another? Instead of giving a verse of Scripture, why don't you discuss this intelligently? Why not tell everyone what Eph. 1:11 or 1:4 mean in your opinion?
I personally, would love to hear what these verses teach because it is apparent, that you see in them, something different than the obvious teaching.