perhaps you are rarely ever tempted but being tempted even once means you are not perfect and can still sin, if you can still sin you have inperfection if we were perfect we would not even be tempted it wouldn't even be on our radar. There is nothing wrong with being imperfect and admitting that you sin in fact if you recall it was separated the tax collector and pharisee in God's eyes. But if one refuses to see or admit that they still sin even if rarely and claim to be perfected then they are the pharisee in that scenario.
The pharisee valued godliness and perfection but because he was blind to himself he was not found worthy to God, the thing about being blind is that you don't see or realize you are blind. given the season we are in nearing Christmas I will give an example a white lie. We call white lies that because they are not intended to be lies persay and perhaps this might trigger someone but santa for example, if we tell our kids the white lie about santa it is still a lie albeit a well intended one or the toothfairy or the easter bunny they are white lies but still lies.
does God hold it against us? I don't think he does but there is no lie in God and even a white lie is lying little things like that can be pinpointed to one thing sin and not just those but lots of little things we do and say everyday can be pinpointed to it
The pharisee valued godliness and perfection but because he was blind to himself he was not found worthy to God, the thing about being blind is that you don't see or realize you are blind. given the season we are in nearing Christmas I will give an example a white lie. We call white lies that because they are not intended to be lies persay and perhaps this might trigger someone but santa for example, if we tell our kids the white lie about santa it is still a lie albeit a well intended one or the toothfairy or the easter bunny they are white lies but still lies.
does God hold it against us? I don't think he does but there is no lie in God and even a white lie is lying little things like that can be pinpointed to one thing sin and not just those but lots of little things we do and say everyday can be pinpointed to it
The problem with the Pharisee in the parable is that he was proud of his self-righteousness; he was thankful that he was not like other men; and was focused inward and did not care about the other men that he thought he was better than. He would have been truly righteous, had he, instead of thanking the Lord that he was not like the publican standing next to him, had said something like thie: "Lord, i see that you have done a work in me that you have not done in the man bowing next to me. I pray that you will, therefore, do the same work in him that you have done in me.
The Pharisee was focused on himself and did not care about the righteousness of the man next to him; it would appear that he was even glad that the man next to him was unrighteous.
Such is not the love of God.
Jesus Himself was perfect and you did not see Him being thankful that he was more righteous than everyone else. Rather, He sought to win those who were not righteous to the righteousness of God. Should Jesus have been as the tax collector? Was He not justified because He was not as the tax collector, saying unto God, "God, be merciful to me a sinner?" The obvious answer is no.
Therefore, the point of the parable is that we not be self-righteous; but if we have obtained the righteousness that comes from confessing that you have sinned, we ought to seek to win others to that same righteousness.