I appreciate it. I'm not saying there is NO way to enjoy responsibly. What I do suggest is that I'm not going to "talk it up" because of the wreckage it causes for some. The problem is you can't really know who will struggle and who will not. You can make an educated guess, but still it's a guess. On some level it's frustrating because there are some positives...but
generally speaking the negatives outweigh the positives. I can certainly see why temperance propaganda is supported by some and I won't go
that far but I respect people that feel such a burden and am willing to operate in but it's a person by person basis. The last thing I want is people to be turned off to the church because of an anti alcohol stance. So I settle with "mostly" anti-alcohol and let it be a personal decision with no encouragement on my end except in a private way if I am CONVINCED that it's not going to open a door with the onus falling on me in any way.
I think we are all responsible for each other in sometimes small ways and rarely in big ways. Ultimately, we all have to work out our own salvation
Knowing the potential pitfalls, I see no reason to talk about the positives unless someone is wrestling with temperance propaganda and feels it's alright for them and is sincere and not rationalizing in order to skirt their own issue.
We ALL have weaknesses and working around others as best we can is loving to me.