I am going to answer this with all honesty as I type my answer to you...
I have really thought hard about this topic today , and the truth is , I do not know...
I mean , if someone came at me with a gun ( i have been shot when I was unbeliever ) but if it happened again , I believe I would let Gods will be done over my life , I would die without attacking back , but if I was to walk in a room and one of my daughters/granddaughters were being raped , I believe I would attack...
I do not believe I would stand there and try to bring Scripture up , my flesh would of jumped into attack mode , but one thing I do know for sure , I would be on my knees weeping in sorrow before God , and thanking Him for Jesus , my LORD and Savior , who knew this sin is why He died for me...
May I never find myself in such a situation...