It seems to me that there's possibly some confusion between being born of the Spirit(salvation) and the baptism in the Holy Spirit.
Everyone who is saved has received the HS at salvation, & during that time there's no evidence of tongues because they weren't baptized in the HS.
When being baptized in the HS, tongues can happen, but it's not the only evidence. That is a tradition of some denominations.
Let me explain:
Acts 2:16-18 (NASB)
[SUP]16 [/SUP] but this is what was spoken of through the prophet Joel: [SUP]17 [/SUP] 'AND IT SHALL BE IN THE LAST DAYS,' God says, 'THAT I WILL POUR FORTH OF MY SPIRIT ON ALL MANKIND; AND YOUR SONS AND YOUR DAUGHTERS SHALL PROPHESY, AND YOUR YOUNG MEN SHALL SEE VISIONS, AND YOUR OLD MEN SHALL DREAM DREAMS; [SUP]18 [/SUP] EVEN ON MY BONDSLAVES, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN, I WILL IN THOSE DAYS POUR FORTH OF MY SPIRIT And they shall prophesy.
Those on the day of Pentecost spoke with tongues, yes, but they were also prophesying to all the Jews in their own languages.
Acts 2:7-11 (NASB)
[SUP]7 [/SUP] They were amazed and astonished, saying, "Why, are not all these who are speaking Galileans? [SUP]8 [/SUP] "And how is it that we each hear them in our own language to which we were born? [SUP]9 [/SUP] "Parthians and Medes and Elamites, and residents of Mesopotamia, Judea and Cappadocia, Pontus and Asia, [SUP]10 [/SUP] Phrygia and Pamphylia, Egypt and the districts of Libya around Cyrene, and visitors from Rome, both Jews and proselytes, [SUP]11 [/SUP] Cretans and Arabs—we hear them in our own tongues speaking of the mighty deeds of God."
So, those baptized in the Spirit will not always speak in tongues, but in some manner they will prophesy.
When I first received the baptism of the HS, I was praising God boldly, quoting scripture I had yet to learn. Those around me said I didn't get it yet because I didn't speak in tongues.
I continued to "seek" this baptism, & the next time I did speak in tongues. But that was a "refreshing", & not a baptism. The early church experienced this refreshing/refilling:
Acts 4:23-31 (KJV)
[SUP]23 [/SUP] And being let go, they went to their own company, and reported all that the chief priests and elders had said unto them. [SUP]24 [/SUP] And when they heard that, they lifted up their voice to God with one accord, and said, Lord, thou art God, which hast made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and all that in them is: [SUP]25 [/SUP] Who by the mouth of thy servant David hast said, Why did the heathen rage, and the people imagine vain things? [SUP]26 [/SUP] The kings of the earth stood up, and the rulers were gathered together against the Lord, and against his Christ. [SUP]27 [/SUP] For of a truth against thy holy child Jesus, whom thou hast anointed, both Herod, and Pontius Pilate, with the Gentiles, and the people of Israel, were gathered together, [SUP]28 [/SUP] For to do whatsoever thy hand and thy counsel determined before to be done. [SUP]29 [/SUP] And now, Lord, behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all boldness they may speak thy word, [SUP]30 [/SUP] By stretching forth thine hand to heal; and that signs and wonders may be done by the name of thy holy child Jesus. [SUP]31 [/SUP] And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where they were assembled together; and they were all filled(refreshed) with the Holy Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness.