What can you offer?

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All I have to offer is my heart as I am and my undying love and dedication. If this is not enough then perhaps they have a different idea of what love is than I do. I offer my heart I offer who I am not who I'm not or who they wish me to be I have no money to give them a good life, I don't have good looks and in all honesty if we are walking together people might mistake me for her child and I am not kidding about that. I am not cool or strong and I am not successful in life.

I am however tender to how she feels and her everyday troubles, I am a good listener and will put aside anything I am doing to help her in her times of trouble even if it's just to wrap her in my arms. I am a romantic and can probably very easily be likened to how a gay best friend would be to a women by the worlds standards as all I have just said to many would seem pretty gay.
But once my heart has devoted itself I would suffer greatly and intensely for her, I would die a horrific and painful death for her.

What I offer is not much by many peoples standards it takes a special heart to love my heart and what I have to offer but that is how real love is. Real love will be the riches between two souls even if they are living on the streets with not a penny to their name you can still see the love they have for each other in faces even in the worst situation love will always shine brighter
 
i cant offer anything because i even dont know what is dhould offer to someone. hmm thats very weird thing, isnt it?
 
i cant offer anything because i even dont know what is should offer to someone. hmm thats very weird thing, isnt it?
 
Okay, here goes... I struggled a bit to write this cause I don’t really talk about this stuff out in the open, but because you asked nicely, I’ma be honest.


First, I can offer the fact that God is my number one, my everything, my Love, my all. So that would mean the man I’m with comes second and will always be second. Wait, actually, third - my parents come after God lol. Don’t make me choose cause you will lose. But know that because I honour God first, I will honour you (third hehe).


I can offer intimacy - not just making love intimacy, but romantic gestures, like sending you love notes rather than texts or opening the car door for you, there’s no rule that females can’t open doors for their men, or if it’s your birthday, I’d make the card, write a poem and take you on a romatic dinner at the beach or country side. While we’re still on the subject of intimacy, I can offer affection - I love to show my man how much I adore him by being affectionate with him, holding hands, massaging his back, neck - I don’t really do public displays on that, maybe hold hands or a kiss on the cheek. The rest would be private.


I can offer commitment and loyalty - I don’t think I need to justify this one in words, its more of an action thing.


I can offer to cook for you. I know some pretty good Samoan dishes. And they’re hearty foods too, not finger foods lol.


I can offer you humour - I think if you know me well enough you’ll know what type of humour I have. It’s borderline dry vs lol’ing for no reason haha.


I can offer you space and independence - I know some men like to have their “man time” with their mates/bros, so I’ma do us both a favour and give you that, I’d expect the same in return with giving me “girl time” with my gfs *high five*


I can offer to look out for your family, Im a family person... FOE


I can offer to be patient - takes alot for me to get super angry at something lol, also I can offer my ears, I’m a good listener, and honesty, that’s something that I value alot as well.


I can offer to give you children haha - that sounds so weird, but hey my bio clocks ticking!


I can offer a good game of Call of Duty - haven’t played it in a while but I’m game<<<<see what I did there? Haha.


I can offer for you to dress the way you want to - but please don’t be those people who wear their pjs to the grocery store! Lol.


I can offer the interest of cars - I like how they look, sound, run. I even got a black Subaru. I call him Batman.


I can offer the love for animals. I have two dogs. I had a cat that died (RIP). But who doesn't love animals!?


I can offer the love of music. My dads a guitarist and my mums side are all musically gifted. I like hearing music that touches the soul - especially praise and worship music. I can play guitar (bit rusty) but sharing the interest with someone else in it would be awesome.


I can offer you love which is something that I hold dear and treasure. And if I'm invested in someone, I want that man to feel like he is the treasure in my life.


I'm missing some but these are probably the main ones and the only ones I can think of at this time. It's 10:41pm, give me a break lol.


Blessings :)
 
garet82 said:
i cant offer anything because i even dont know what is dhould offer to someone. hmm thats very weird thing, isnt it?
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you can sing! yayy I heard u in the chatroom you've got this beautiful and sweet voice maybe sing for him :o
 
Mel85 said:
Okay, here goes... I struggled a bit to write this cause I don’t really talk about this stuff out in the open, but because you asked nicely, I’ma be honest.


First, I can offer the fact that God is my number one, my everything, my Love, my all. So that would mean the man I’m with comes second and will always be second. Wait, actually, third - my parents come after God lol. Don’t make me choose cause you will lose. But know that because I honour God first, I will honour you (third hehe).


I can offer intimacy - not just making love intimacy, but romantic gestures, like sending you love notes rather than texts or opening the car door for you, there’s no rule that females can’t open doors for their men, or if it’s your birthday, I’d make the card, write a poem and take you on a romatic dinner at the beach or country side. While we’re still on the subject of intimacy, I can offer affection - I love to show my man how much I adore him by being affectionate with him, holding hands, massaging his back, neck - I don’t really do public displays on that, maybe hold hands or a kiss on the cheek. The rest would be private.


I can offer commitment and loyalty - I don’t think I need to justify this one in words, its more of an action thing.


I can offer to cook for you. I know some pretty good Samoan dishes. And they’re hearty foods too, not finger foods lol.


I can offer you humour - I think if you know me well enough you’ll know what type of humour I have. It’s borderline dry vs lol’ing for no reason haha.


I can offer you space and independence - I know some men like to have their “man time” with their mates/bros, so I’ma do us both a favour and give you that, I’d expect the same in return with giving me “girl time” with my gfs *high five*


I can offer to look out for your family, Im a family person... FOE


I can offer to be patient - takes alot for me to get super angry at something lol, also I can offer my ears, I’m a good listener, and honesty, that’s something that I value alot as well.


I can offer to give you children haha - that sounds so weird, but hey my bio clocks ticking!


I can offer a good game of Call of Duty - haven’t played it in a while but I’m game<<<<see what I did there? Haha.


I can offer for you to dress the way you want to - but please don’t be those people who wear their pjs to the grocery store! Lol.


I can offer the interest of cars - I like how they look, sound, run. I even got a black Subaru. I call him Batman.


I can offer the love for animals. I have two dogs. I had a cat that died (RIP). But who doesn't love animals!?


I can offer the love of music. My dads a guitarist and my mums side are all musically gifted. I like hearing music that touches the soul - especially praise and worship music. I can play guitar (bit rusty) but sharing the interest with someone else in it would be awesome.


I can offer you love which is something that I hold dear and treasure. And if I'm invested in someone, I want that man to feel like he is the treasure in my life.


I'm missing some but these are probably the main ones and the only ones I can think of at this time. It's 10:41pm, give me a break lol.


Blessings :)
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I think I would be down with everything you got, except the parents coming before the husband. To be married, you have to leave your parents, and become one with your spouse.

Not a criticism though.

How do you feel about firearm policy?
 
Tommy379 said:
I think I would be down with everything you got, except the parents coming before the husband. To be married, you have to leave your parents, and become one with your spouse.

Not a criticism though.

How do you feel about firearm policy?
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I’m not familiar with the Firearm Policy in the US, so I can’t comment?

What’s with the firearm policy?
 
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