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Godsgirl1983

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I think I prefer being cool than anywhere on a 1-10 scale :cool:

Like Elizabeth says, focus on health and spiritual walk.
Focusing on our walk with Christ is paramount to anything else.
Focusing on health honors the temple He blessed us with (no matter how attractive or unattractive we are to others - health is more than about being attractive).
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Somehow I can picture this on a black tee shirt with white lettering on my :geek: super smart 14 year old :LOL:
 

Godsgirl1983

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Too bad that's not beard hair you're talking about :ROFL:
Good thing I'm not as beard crazy as you :LOL:
cuz I came home today to find hubby had shaved his all off :eek:
(but the stach is still there, so that's good :LOL: )
 

Godsgirl1983

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:unsure: hmmm, for some reason I just can't stop thinking about 1 Samuel 16:7
oh and Proverbs 31:30
 

cinder

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I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.
Well if that's how this whole rating scale works then we're all potential 8s
 
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If Ana Kendrick or Kate Bekinsail fell out of the sky and hit me in the head I wouldn't complain. But I live in reality so I know that will never happen lol. I see lots of pretty women running around in the real world. They arnt exactly some undiscovered creature. Personality is what is rare.
Yes, because you'd both be dead 😂
 

Smoke

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Since we got on the topic of rating people between a 1-10
I am curious to know:
How would you rate my picture?
And how would you rate the AI image of my dream girl?

I would give me 6.5
And her 9
However, I believe the rules are this, You can only be matched with a person who is 1 point difference from you.
So, she will have to step down to an 8 and I will have to work my way up to a 7, before we are compatible.

I am honestly curious to hear you responses,
I am a big boy, you won't hurt my feelings.
Only because you're asking, I would say you are about a 3.5-4. Granted, I'm a heterosexual male, but from the objective beauty markers/identifiers, this seems more accurate than 6.5. No disrespect.

As for the AI woman you posted, it's a bit difficult as she looks clearly animated/generated. Pretending this was like that show/movie Weird Science and she will be printed in human form, I would probably give her an 8-8.5.

I don't know your personality or your resources, but all things being average, it would relatively be unrealistic to expect this type of woman to be drawn to you. I did like that you said you would prefer to be single than "settle". My guess is either time will show you were correct in preferring to be single or your standards come down several notches and you find a great woman of God. God bless and good luck brother.
 

Smoke

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I can only see two faults which would place me at an eight, unless you give more deduction points for either of those qualities.

But seriously, I think I wear my skin well, (+1) for playing the hand I was dealt.
Bald (-1), Lazy eye (-1), yellow teeth (-1), smoker (-1), pudgy (-1),
I am going to give myself a half point for being so polite I am mistaken as Canadian.

I think once I improve my dental hygiene and quit smoking and lose the pudgy weight and get muscular.
I should be up at an eight. Some men like Jason Statham and Bruce Willis would look weird with hair.
I would advise setting realistic expectations. Mr. Clean is physical fit, bald, normal eyes, and has white teeth but I'm not sure he would even be considered an 8.



All you can do is just focus on improving yourself with the hand you were dealt as you mentioned.
 

Noel25

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I would advise setting realistic expectations. Mr. Clean is physical fit, bald, normal eyes, and has white teeth but I'm not sure he would even be considered an 8.



All you can do is just focus on improving yourself with the hand you were dealt as you mentioned.
Mr. Clean gives me ahem...*playing for the same team as me* vibes. :unsure::LOL:
I'm pretty sure he's out of the closet. So it's difficult for me to rate him as I don't know what gay men are looking for.
 

Lynx

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Mr. Clean gives me ahem...*playing for the same team as me* vibes. :unsure::LOL:
I'm pretty sure he's out of the closet. So it's difficult for me to rate him as I don't know what gay men are looking for.
He is shilling for cleaning products that they expect mostly women to purchase. So yes, he has to seem a little bit like that. He has to come across more as a friend than a potential romantic interest, and you know how popular it is for women to have gay friends.
 

Edith

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If Ana Kendrick or Kate Bekinsail fell out of the sky and hit me in the head I wouldn't complain. But I live in reality so I know that will never happen lol. I see lots of pretty women running around in the real world. They arnt exactly some undiscovered creature. Personality is what is rare.
thumbs up Brother. I am beginning to change my mind.