Wellll............ some women admire an optimistic outlook, so you definitely have that going for ya! 
What are you looking for?
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You have a great smile!
You look approachable and like you have a good sense of humor.
This is the caliber of woman you're thinking you're going to marry?
Well...
Like Snackers said... At least you're optimistic.
This woman is at least a 15 on a scale of 10, if not higher. I'm a woman and I'd be intimidated to be friends with someone who looks like this, because I'd be afraid she wouldn't see me as good enough.
In what areas are you a 15 to match a woman this beautiful?
I wish you all the best.
This is the caliber of woman you're thinking you're going to marry?
Well...
Like Snackers said... At least you're optimistic.
This woman is at least a 15 on a scale of 10, if not higher. I'm a woman and I'd be intimidated to be friends with someone who looks like this, because I'd be afraid she wouldn't see me as good enough.
In what areas are you a 15 to match a woman this beautiful?
I wish you all the best.
She appears to be AI generated, I could be wrong but @Magenta could probly tell for sure.
@Josepus86 , you might want to look up some pics of actual women within 10-15 years of your current age to get a more realistic idea.
Better yet, search ones that aren't wearing an $80+ makeup job (unless you're willing/able to afford them for her on a regular basis).
AI for sure.
Also, Wonder is on the lower right corner, that is an AI generator I just found out.
https://wonderai.app/
I may try it LOL
So thank you for the heads up!
The message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.” Since the world through its wisdom did not know Him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe. from 1 Corinthians 1 verses 18-21 The natural man does not choose to believe that which he can neither receive nor comprehend, for it is foolishness to him.
That AI generated image reminded me of a news story I seen recently. It was about a guy in a relationship with his AI girlfriend. This guy has a wife and child! One article even said he proposed and it said yes. I guess that 2013 film called Her with Joaquin Phoenix is coming true.
Maybe this is where the future is going. Since almost all of us can't reach these unobtainable levels on the attractive scale, then AI will have to be the partner lol.
Btw, I have no idea what I am on the scale. I don't even use the scale. I think it's degrading to women and men. I steer clear of guys who use the 1-10 scale. That's just me personally. I'm not here on Earth to be on a scale, and I don't think anyone else is either. You're either attractive to someone or you're not. And whether you are attractive to someone or not, your value is not on that scale!!
Maybe this is where the future is going. Since almost all of us can't reach these unobtainable levels on the attractive scale, then AI will have to be the partner lol.
Btw, I have no idea what I am on the scale. I don't even use the scale. I think it's degrading to women and men. I steer clear of guys who use the 1-10 scale. That's just me personally. I'm not here on Earth to be on a scale, and I don't think anyone else is either. You're either attractive to someone or you're not. And whether you are attractive to someone or not, your value is not on that scale!!
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Dang it, it it didn't just have the image like I wanted. Well, hopefully you've either seen the post or can click on this.
The above is the picture the OP posted of the kind of woman that @Josepus86 is apparently looking for.
To me, she looks a bit like Angelina Jolie and Anna De Armas:
This reminds me of when I used to be part of a ministry that wrote to prison inmates. I remember one who went to prison in his early 20's and had been there about 7 years. He wrote and asked me, "Are all the women out there as hot as what I see on TV?" These men only saw women on screens or in magazines, so they thought -- and expected -- that this was just what all women looked like.
Now, I am NOT in any way trying to compare @Josepus86 to someone in prison, but I DO wonder about people, both men and women, who apparently choose to somehow live in such a bubble that they think that this is what real life people actually look like -- and that they should be able to land one.
I'm also reminded of a CC member who said she had a female friend who is expecting to marry a guy who looks like Dwayne The Rock Johnson:
Guys, how many of you out there look like this? How would it make you feel if a woman said this is what she was looking for, and expects this in a man? Surely you can measure up to this with no problem, right?
I always wonder what's happened to people that they think they're going to land, and even deserve ("God wants only THE BEST for me!") someone this high on the "Good-Looking" scale.
And all I can say is, good luck.
Not only are they most likely going to be very disappointed, but I feel sorry for the person they do marry, because they will see that person as a letdown. Everyday people are very unlikely to meet these kinds of standards.
It reminds me of something I'd mentioned in another thread, about a sculpture in New York that people want torn down for several reasons, one of them because many are saying it's "ugly."
But in real life, many women have this body type.
I did a quick Google search for "Average Body Type of American Men Today Age 35," and one of the things it brought up was this:
Apparently, a survey was taken of which body type women prefer -- the percentages you see are the percentage of women who chose this body type as their preferred ideal.
As you can see from the results in this particular poll, none of them chose the obese body type (skimming over the article, no woman chose the super skinny type either,) and most preferred "healthy" -- which tended to be lean and muscular. A strong, broad, and well-built chest was also highly rated.
No problem, right guys? I mean, don't most of you look like this already?
All I can say is, if anyone expects to marry someone who looks like a literal movie star, most likely, you'll probably have to be rich (uber rich -- a mere million these days won't cut it unless maybe their love interest is from a very small town and doesn't know what more expensive places cost) -- and look like a movie star yourself.
The upkeep alone to look that way and maintain it is going to cost a fairly large salary all by itself.
Dang it, it it didn't just have the image like I wanted. Well, hopefully you've either seen the post or can click on this.
The above is the picture the OP posted of the kind of woman that @Josepus86 is apparently looking for.
To me, she looks a bit like Angelina Jolie and Anna De Armas:
This reminds me of when I used to be part of a ministry that wrote to prison inmates. I remember one who went to prison in his early 20's and had been there about 7 years. He wrote and asked me, "Are all the women out there as hot as what I see on TV?" These men only saw women on screens or in magazines, so they thought -- and expected -- that this was just what all women looked like.
Now, I am NOT in any way trying to compare @Josepus86 to someone in prison, but I DO wonder about people, both men and women, who apparently choose to somehow live in such a bubble that they think that this is what real life people actually look like -- and that they should be able to land one.
I'm also reminded of a CC member who said she had a female friend who is expecting to marry a guy who looks like Dwayne The Rock Johnson:
Guys, how many of you out there look like this? How would it make you feel if a woman said this is what she was looking for, and expects this in a man? Surely you can measure up to this with no problem, right?
I always wonder what's happened to people that they think they're going to land, and even deserve ("God wants only THE BEST for me!") someone this high on the "Good-Looking" scale.
And all I can say is, good luck.
Not only are they most likely going to be very disappointed, but I feel sorry for the person they do marry, because they will see that person as a letdown. Everyday people are very unlikely to meet these kinds of standards.
It reminds me of something I'd mentioned in another thread, about a sculpture in New York that people want torn down for several reasons, one of them because many are saying it's "ugly."
But in real life, many women have this body type.
I did a quick Google search for "Average Body Type of American Men Today Age 35," and one of the things it brought up was this:
Apparently, a survey was taken of which body type women prefer -- the percentages you see are the percentage of women who chose this body type as their preferred ideal.
As you can see from the results in this particular poll, none of them chose the obese body type (skimming over the article, no woman chose the super skinny type either,) and most preferred "healthy" -- which tended to be lean and muscular. A strong, broad, and well-built chest was also highly rated.
No problem, right guys? I mean, don't most of you look like this already?
All I can say is, if anyone expects to marry someone who looks like a literal movie star, most likely, you'll probably have to be rich (uber rich -- a mere million these days won't cut it unless maybe their love interest is from a very small town and doesn't know what more expensive places cost) -- and look like a movie star yourself.
The upkeep alone to look that way and maintain it is going to cost a fairly large salary all by itself.
I know the other tendency is that anyone who tries to say real people don't look like movie stars are generally told, "You're just jealous because you must be a fat, ugly old troll!!" (Obviously, low-hanging fruit.)
I remember years ago there was a guy here on the forum who told me in a thread that I was obviously single because I must be a dried-up old hag!
Lol!
Maybe.
There are some people on this forum who've met me in person (maybe they think that too, but they're generally too nice to say anything!) and I have a picture floating around here somewhere -- presumably, I'm passably human enough to not be kicked out -- yet!
Also... I've met @Snackersmom in real life -- several times -- and I can tell you, she's beautiful. And no, I'm not just saying that.
Her job is very demanding, so she's very fit, lean, and STRONG -- I've seen her carry series of 50+ lb. boxes -- on her shoulder. Shoot, forget the men -- it would be SNACKERS who could give Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson a run for his money -- and not because she's manly.
I'm only mentioning it because women who speak out are generally written off as "fat", "ugly", and "masculine", and nothing could be further from the truth with Snackers -- but she'd never praise herself, so I like to talk her up instead.
I would say more, but I'm afraid of her throwing things at me (like 50+ lb. boxes,) so I shall stop here.
I remember years ago there was a guy here on the forum who told me in a thread that I was obviously single because I must be a dried-up old hag!
Lol!
Maybe.
There are some people on this forum who've met me in person (maybe they think that too, but they're generally too nice to say anything!) and I have a picture floating around here somewhere -- presumably, I'm passably human enough to not be kicked out -- yet!
Also... I've met @Snackersmom in real life -- several times -- and I can tell you, she's beautiful. And no, I'm not just saying that.
Her job is very demanding, so she's very fit, lean, and STRONG -- I've seen her carry series of 50+ lb. boxes -- on her shoulder. Shoot, forget the men -- it would be SNACKERS who could give Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson a run for his money -- and not because she's manly.
I'm only mentioning it because women who speak out are generally written off as "fat", "ugly", and "masculine", and nothing could be further from the truth with Snackers -- but she'd never praise herself, so I like to talk her up instead.
I would say more, but I'm afraid of her throwing things at me (like 50+ lb. boxes,) so I shall stop here.
Yeah those boxes hurt. I'm speaking as a guy who has put up many truck orders at w*rk. You don't want to get hit with one.
And that picture of a woman... Video games can look more realistic than that these days. I'm surprised that's the best Wonder can do. I hope they don't charge actual money for that.
And that picture of a woman... Video games can look more realistic than that these days. I'm surprised that's the best Wonder can do. I hope they don't charge actual money for that.
AI generators follow prompts, but they do seem to have built in parameters as well, which I why when I give my prompts, I specify "looks like" so I do not get their default, because the default is not, uh, ideal at all for me. It is often elfish and extremely young looking and of course it depends on the generator also. Apparently Wonder costs money and as I looked into it more last night I saw people really complaining about how awful it was, some of the typical complaints being about the generators' inability to render hands properly. I did not read a lot of reviews, though. One of the generators I started using late last year also had hand problems; sometimes I would get three, and garbled fingers, often way too many of them, or sometimes none at all, or an extra arm LOL and another problem was the generator had absolutely no idea of what feminine modesty is. Even if I specified high necked and modest gown/dress, the amount of cleavage it sometimes gave was totally inappropriate, and even asking for a turtle neck with large scarf, well, as you can see in the panel above, it still does not always give full coverage. That panel did make use of the OP's woman/face, which I blended in. That is why I posted it here. Another issue was they always give a very young looking face and if I said mature looking I would get this really wrinkled terribly beat up looking gaunt face LOL. I do most often replace the face but still, I want to start with something appealing. Here is the original woman I got that I used in the above panel to which I blended in OP's facial preference:
I have not tried age number, just saying mature or more mature looking. I may try your suggestion, as it could
give better results than what I get with "mature." Ah, I dd not like the heavy eyebrows so have changed them...
Since we got on the topic of rating people between a 1-10
I am curious to know:
How would you rate my picture?
And how would you rate the AI image of my dream girl?
I would give me 6.5
And her 9
However, I believe the rules are this, You can only be matched with a person who is 1 point difference from you.
So, she will have to step down to an 8 and I will have to work my way up to a 7, before we are compatible.
I am honestly curious to hear you responses,
I am a big boy, you won't hurt my feelings.
I am curious to know:
How would you rate my picture?
And how would you rate the AI image of my dream girl?
I would give me 6.5
And her 9
However, I believe the rules are this, You can only be matched with a person who is 1 point difference from you.
So, she will have to step down to an 8 and I will have to work my way up to a 7, before we are compatible.
I am honestly curious to hear you responses,
I am a big boy, you won't hurt my feelings.
Many of us have already answered all of these questions with our posts...
And others who haven't answered you directly have hinted at their answers via their responses (emojis) to those posts.
I give you full kudos for being willing to post your photo and asking for honest feedback, and I wish you all the best!
