Nonsense! God does the "love the world" -- just not in the distributive sense as you think -- but in the limited, biblical sense to wit:
Rev 5:9
9 And they sang a new song:
"You are worthy to take the scroll
and to open its seals,
because you were slain,
and with your blood you purchased men for God
from every tribe and language and people and nation.
NIV
Rev 7:9
9 After this I looked and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and in front of the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands.
NIV
Notice what Rev 5:9 DOESN'T say: It doesn't say that "with your blood you purchased each and every man" from..."
And many people over the ages have never had the "opportunity" to hear the gospel, let alone believe it! For starters, what about all the infants, babies and small kids die without having a true knowledge of good and evil? When you use the word "must", you clearly imply that God is morally obligated to save mankind. But if he's morally obligated, this further implies that mankind is entitled to his salvation. But if mankind is entitled to salvation, then salvation cannot possibly be by grace since Grace is God's unmerited favor that he gives to undeserving sinners.
Or what about Ishmael and Esau: What opportunity did they have to enter into a saving covenant relationship with God? Their eternal, spiritual destiny was determined in eternity before any of them did anything good or bad.
You really should strive to get on the same page as the bible.
Here are the pages of the Bible I am on:
Synonyms for “elect” include: elect (MT 24:22,24&31) = disciples (MT 28:7-8,13,16&19) = reborn (JN 3:3&7) = believers (JN 3:16, 5:24, 6:35-40 & 20:29) = saints (ACTS 9:32, RM 1:7, 8:27) = Christians (ACTS 11:26, 26:28) = saved (ACTS 16:30-31) = those in Christ (RM 8:1, EPH 1:1-13) = Spirit-led (RM 8:2-16) = children/sons/heirs of God (RM 8:14-21) = the grafted in (RM 11:17-24) = sanctified/church member (1CR 1:2) = God’s people (1CR 16:1) = church/saints (2CR 1:1 = the faithful/holy (EPH 1:1, PHP 1:2) = chosen in Christ (EPH 1:4-11) = members of God’s household (EPH 2:19) = soldier/worker (PHL v.2&24)
Calvinists interpret RM 11:5-7 and EPH 1:4-14 as teaching God predetermines some souls to be saved or elect, while others are condemned to hell. The need is to harmonize these Scriptures with other Scriptures teaching that souls have moral free will and thus are accountable for choosing whether to cooperate with God, including the following:
DT 30:19, “This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.”
MT 23:37, “Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing.”
JN 3:16, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
1TM 2:3b-4, “God our Savior wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.”
A way to harmonize these two categories of Scripture is as follows:
1. Paul views the elect as those who receive God’s grace though faith instead of trying to merit salvation by obeying moral laws (RM 11:5-6, EPH 2:4-10). God initiates; souls cooperate–or not.
2. RM 11:7 says, “What Israel sought so earnestly it did not obtain, but the elect did”, which seems to speak of both corporate Israel and elect individuals including those from corporate “Gentiledom” (who comprise corporate Christendom aka the spiritual church/kingdom of God). An all-loving God would have elected to give everyone a new heart, and on what just basis would He elect some sinners rather than others? Thus we conclude that some Jews cooperated with God, but others did not and shut their ears and eyes to GW (RM 11:7-10, ACTS 28:25-28)
3. The Jews as a whole did not fall completely beyond recovery or from the possibility of being saved, because the possibility of Gentiles receiving salvation may make some of them envious and prompt them also to accept God’s grace (RM 11:11-14, 1TM 2:3-4, JN 3:16)
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4. Gentiles should not feel superior to Jews, because all are broken off the tree of life because of unbelief or grafted into the tree of life by faith (RM 11:15-21, DT 30:19, MT 23:37)
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5. God is stern toward those who reject His POS and kind to all (1TM 2:3-4, JN 3:16) who accept grace, if they continue to cooperate rather than persist in unbelief/unwillingness (RM 11:22-24, DT 30:19, MT 23:37)
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6. God allows Jews to be hardened and become ungodly enemies just as the Gentiles were (cf. ACTS 28:26-27), so that He may have mercy on them all–that is, on all He chooses to elect, which is all (1TM 2:3-4, JN 3:16) who reflect His love by accepting Messiah/Christ (DT 30:19, MT 23:37)
. In this way His POS is just (2TH 1:6)
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