no, not a tattle tale story, just a story. a couple of weeks ago, i visited a musician friend & an antique dealer friend. nobody else saw me except those two. by course, we all dress up in work or old clothes, especially when antique hunting, which could have holes in them, spots or tears. i came home & my wife said, "you shouldn't go out like that, we have a reputation to keep up, there's too many people that know us, we don't want people talking about us". i told her, "no one saw me, besides, it's nothing to dress up about". she wasn't having it. what are your thoughts? thank you.