Maybe it depends on us meditating on how the Scripture applies to us specifically.
The verse I believe we are talking about here is (please correct me if I have the wrong one): 2 Cor. 11:21-30: "But whatever anyone else dares to boast of—I am speaking as a fool—I also dare to boast of that. Are they Hebrews? So am I. Are they Israelites? So am I. Are they offspring of Abraham? So am I. Are they servants of Christ? I am a better one—I am talking like a madman—with far greater labors, far more imprisonments, with countless beatings, and often near death. Five times I received at the hands of the Jews the forty lashes less one. Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I was adrift at sea; on frequent journeys, in danger from rivers, danger from robbers, danger from my own people, danger from Gentiles, danger in the city, danger in the wilderness, danger at sea, danger from false brothers; in toil and hardship, through many a sleepless night, in hunger and thirst, often without food, in cold and exposure. And, apart from other things, there is the daily pressure on me of my anxiety for all the churches. Who is weak, and I am not weak? Who is made to fall, and I am not indignant? If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.
In my opinion, Paul doesn’t say these things to boast in how he took all this suffering and adversity like a man—he does it so that we might know that God will ALWAYS give us more than we can handle. He “boasts of the things that show my weakness” (v. 30) because those things show Jesus' (and our) dependency on the power and mercy of God.
Also, earlier in 2 Corinthians, in Chapter 1, Paul declares: "For we do not want you to be ignorant, brothers, of the affliction we experienced in Asia. For we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself, Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead (2 Cor 1:8,9).
As I meditate on these and other verses (in Romans especially), I get the idea that God, my Abba, my Dear Father has provided me, by Faith with a whole new Life: in Jesus, my Elder Brother and Redeemer AND when I live IN Him and He live IN Me, I can make it through the hellishness of this World. I can learn to live and move and have my being in HIM (Acts 17:28 For in him we live and move and have our being...)! And in Him, no matter what happens to my Earth Suit (my body and brain), I can learn to trust and be at peace and rest in Him! That sounds like me (in Jesus) overcoming, doing the impossible: Thriving! And this is what I think needs to be the focus, instead of just God not giving more than I can handle. I am to handle NOTHING apart from Christ; I am to learn to do ALL in Him: my All-in-All! This, I believe, is the Kingdom of God, with us living IN it, here, now!