It seems all of your go-to verses come from Acts. Each chapter paints a different perspective based on each authors personality, but with the same message. Many verses seem in contradiction, but with prayer and study, over time they crystalize with meaning. Jesus said: “It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.” In other words, we cannot simply ignore some verses in favor of those we prefer.
I am not sure how long you have been a Christian, but I would suggest that you focus on the entire body of Scripture before becoming too dogmatic in your conclusions.
Thank you for your concern.
How can you tell if a person is saved?
Or how long they have been?
Since all I do is share how to get reborn, the first 5 books are my go to.
After the book of Acts you will not find any scripture on how to be reborn since most of them are they are to Church's.