Okay, Jesus had not been to heaven since His death, so it was impossible for Jesus to be with the thief in Heaven on Friday or any time after His dead for at lest 24 hours. I think you understand the facts shown in the events.
Joh 20:17 Jesus saith unto her, Touch me not; for I am not yet ascended to my Father: but go to my brethren, and say unto them, I ascend unto my Father, and your Father; and to my God, and your God.
The thing that I find so sad is that there are multiple bible verses to plainly back up soul sleep. And a few verses that people twist to support that the soul live forever. But people will believe what they want to believe.
Soul sleep is biblical but to teach that the soul can not die is spiritualism and devilish.
Gen 3:2-5
2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: 3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die. 4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die: 5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
Who will you believe??
.... God said you will die.
....the devil said you will not surely die.
Then the question arises, what is death according to the bible? Jesus spoke of those who do not believe in Him and who are still in their sins, going away into "everlasting punishment." If death meant ceasing to exist, they could not suffer everlasting punishment.