Honest Question: How do I pray?

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He already knows what we want and need, and what we are going to say.
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Yes, prayer is simply talking to God, and the power of prayer is God’s, so believers should not talk as though God would not act if they did not pray. Petition, may be the most used and least understood type of prayer, although the prayers of Paul indicate that perhaps intercession should be our most frequent type of petition (Eph. 6:18b).

The privilege of petitioning God should not be viewed as a blank check, nor is the primary purpose of prayer to persuade God to do our will like a genie. Rather, in prayer we should express our agreement with the perfect will of God. As 1 John 5:14 says, “if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.” Although agreement with God is not always mentioned (cf. Eph. 3:20, John 16:23), Jesus exemplified this principle when He prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matt. 26:36-46).

Again, we should approach God’s “throne of grace” (Heb. 4:16) not to ask Him to do some good He otherwise would not do, but rather to remind ourselves of His presence and that He is the source of all blessings (Jam. 1:17). Prayer is like surfing: one does not need to ask God to send waves, but rather for readiness to ride them. In order to pray in accordance with God’s will, we must know God’s Word (John 15:7). Like bread and butter or romantic love and spiritual marriage, prayer and LGW go together. Pray for God’s will to be done.

Knowing God’s will is necessary in order for us to pray more specifically than “Thy will be done”. Much of God’s will is prescriptive or stated in clear moral teachings such as the Ten Commandments (Exo. 20:1-17, Matt. 19:17-21, Gal. 5:22-23). We may not know how to pray, but we can “live up to what we have already attained” (Phil. 3:16). That we pray is more important to God than our wording (Eph. 6:18a, 1Thes. 5:17, Rom. 8:26-27). Not praying would be like giving God “the silent treatment”.
 
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Update: So it took me a while, but a few days ago I did my first prayer. It felt honest. As you people told me, i showed gratefulness, and that already helped a lot.
 
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Update: So it took me a while, but a few days ago I did my first prayer. It felt honest. As you people told me, i showed gratefulness, and that already helped a lot.

May I ask what's your prayer about?

Was it sins?
 
I am not quite sure about my faith yet but I am trying. While reading about bible and Jesus I asked myself, how do I even pray? I am not sure if I have the right state of mind for that, or if there is a right state of mind. How do you do it? How do you feel before and during the pray? I really want to try.

Pray for your needs and the needs of other people spiritually and physically.

You do not need an instruction manual.

Jas 4:3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.

Php 4:19 But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Jas 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

For that is the only thing we can pray for because God only supplies us with our needs not our wants.

1Ti 6:5 Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.

1Ti 6:8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.

1Ti 6:10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

Paul said that people that preach godliness is gain our wants withdraw yourselves from them having food and clothing our needs be content.

For the love of money is the root of all evil for it neglects the poor and the needy, and love is the fulfilling of the law.

Many people go by their wants and think it is coming from God but it is coming from the flesh.

Rev 3:14 And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God;

Rev 3:15 I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot.

Rev 3:16 So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.

Rev 3:17 Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked.

Pro 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.

Pro 30:12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.

Pro 30:13 There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.

Pro 30:14 There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men.

It is hard for some people to not venture that especially in America with money flowing like a raging river and many things to enjoy.

And I want to enjoy money and the things to enjoy with it but by doing so I am neglecting people who need their needs met because I am spending it on my wants instead of them which is not love.

The last generation will heap money to themselves and not care about the poor and needy because technology causes them to make more money because they can reach out to a wider audience and more money flowing.

And many people who claim Christianity are jumping on board.

Mat 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.

Rom 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.

Mat 6:6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

Mat 6:7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.

Mat 6:8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.

Mat 6:9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

Mat 6:10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

Mat 6:11 Give us this day our daily bread.

Mat 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

Mat 6:13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.

Jesus gave this example to pray which covers our needs spiritually and physically and for other people including our enemies.

So it is not hard to pray but easy.
 
Not here to offend anyone but if we truly believed (faith works by love, faith and action) God hears us and answers us then on any forum GEN would not be one of if not the biggest threads it would be say "Answered prayers or Testimonies" yet it is not. OT God was about to Judge and He looked for just one from among them to build a wall to stand in the gap but found none. Live hits us all and some get hit very hard others don't won't take it they stand and it does not hit them. They are those build on the rock. Gods word can not fail there is no yes or no its Yes and amen to Gods promise. Faith works by love. Hello works? What ever you desire when you pray believe you receive it (faith)and you shall have it. Sorry but if your young in the faith or of this world then that verse just means you can ask God for anything you want. Delight your self in the lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. I just read that somewhere else and again the left out the rest the faith the works the action. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.

See its written And if we know that He hears us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions/prayers that we have asked of Him. But some don't know His will right? That Bible? That is Gods will. Gods will.. to confess Jesus Christ as lord came and died for the worlds sin. That is the gospel that is the good news that is what we share with the world. He supplies all your needs... some pray this then back up by confessing "well I hope He heard me I don't know how I will meet my need". If we doubt let not that man think he will get anything from God. You have not because you ask not I have not if I am asking just for personal gain. What I learned said but 35 years later is gifing. God does give back but I do not give to get. I know He will bless my giving but again that is never the reasons. See in this world you know its take take take but with God the blessing the reward is when we give.. we freely give period. And GOD is the best the greatest giver of all. See young in the faith the weak the world even will see this as "get what ever you want from God"

Thinking like that will get you nothing. The enemy will come in and deceive you. Christ said .. on earth as it IS IN heaven. We make God in our image but truth is we are made in His image. Never .. ask Him if you want if you think I am being untruthful. Never had a prayer and He just said...na not gonna happen. When it does not happen its because I asked wrong.. I didn't pray His word His promises for those promises are YES and AMEN. As long as I pray His words trust in Him then later doubt worry .. I just killed it.. I have to get back up.. get His word into my heart to stay.. that no matter what I see no matter what I hear no matter what I feel.. and I have had great great pain but I stood on His word would not move. The enemy tries to come back.. ooh look God didn't heal you or what ever. haha laugh at him and say be gone.. I resist and he has to flee. Times when I know I do not have the faith praise GOD For doctores.. I go to them and then know with my Father.. only good will happen and it has. Some things you pray for .. you don't stop believing .. just what this year.. the answer and it was huge.. took about 3 years. Ever time doubt popped up.. NO In Jesus name He said if two shall agree and I agreed with so and so .. this is done and I am healed in Jesus name. Faith works by love. Can't have unforgiveness or bitterness or unrepented sin these things can hinder God.

So know He hears you.. know He loves you Know He is for you.. He said I didn't come to condemn to judge you I came to save you. There is no fear no worry .. He is not mad at you.. just simply believe.. put your cares.. ALL in to His hands and let go.. then rejoice for you know He will take care of it
 
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