A wise man sees evil coming a prepares for it<----In the bible and biblically proven....Jesus, Noah, Rahab, Joseph etc.
EVEN though the things will happen, God told the disciples dia Jesus when you see certain events FLEE to the place that has been prepared....I agree there are many fine lines and one can get a little over board, but having said that...If the Lord lays upon your heart to prepare then if you do not prepare is disobedience....I too have a son who is handicapped and the Lord has allowed me over 2 million dollars worth of supplies that he needs to sustain his life without me putting out one thin dime for it.....God can protect us from bloody and deceitful men and even God had the children of Israel keep the wall and defend the cities that they were in.....SOME will be ALIVE and remain unto the PAROUSIA of Jesus and to say this family or that group is unscriptural for preparing and or wrong for preparing is a judgment call that none of us can accurately make in my view.....I am sure the majority if not all thought Noah was a whack job for sure!
First, let me say how glad I am that God has blessed you with provisions for your son \o/.
Regarding Noah, Rahab, Joseph, etc., they are all pictures of the salvation that we have in Christ.
In Christ, we are not to fear those who can destroy the body ([SUP]
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“I tell you, my friends, do not fear those who kill the body, and after that have nothing more that they can do." - Luke 12:4). There are believers right now who are having their children's heads cut off or are being crucified, and they go to their deaths knowing that the Kingdom of God is at hand - it is in us (the Body of Christ) now, and will come with fullness after every tribe and tongue is reached with the Gospel.
How does one 'prepare' for such persecution?
By knowing and resting in who they are in Christ.
Are the things going on in our world judgements from God?
The Bible tells us that in Christ, God was reconciling the world to Himself, not counting men's sins against them (2 Cor. 5). His desire is reconciliation, not judgement. Indeed, He poured out His judgement on Christ at the Cross, forgiving not only our sins, but the sins of the entire world (1 Jn. 2:2). Does that mean that all are saved? No - they need to enter in to what God has done in Christ by faith (Rom. 5, Eph. 2, Gal. 2,3).
The things that we see happening today are the results of man's free will and bent towards the destruction of self and others because they are without Christ.
Whose job is it to bring the Gospel to them?
Ours:
18 All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; 1
9 that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.
20 Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. (from 2 Cor. 5)
Too many Christians sit and curse the darkness rather than bring the wonderful Light they have hiding under their baskets

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What is being obedient in preparing for 'what's coming'?
To go out and tell as many people as we can, looking for every open door, every opportunity,
praying for opportunities to share the Good News of Jesus, Who He is, What He came to do, What that actually accomplished, and who those who put their faith in Christ are in Him.
Why? Because if you're in Christ
you're prepared.
God has entrusted to us the ministry of reconciliation to help
others get prepared.
-JGIG