Why ignore everything said of man just because you can decide between fries or salad with lunch?
The latter has zero to do with salvation and is merely a red herring to confuse the issue.
Grace can SOVEREIGNLY suspend the effects of the flesh over the soul while God gives that person time to decide about God.
Romans 1:21-29
For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice.
Romans 1:21-29 reveals to us that future reprobates (who will be condemned to hell) had been brought by grace to a state of knowing God is real.
They knew God is real.
Therefore, it is not impossible for them to know, as some wish to claim.
They CHOSE freely not to retain the knowledge of God. (free will)
But, if someone chooses to be positive to God's drawing?
And he chooses to retain the knowledge of God?
Then the drawing of God would continue and progressed closer to the finish line, where the Father would then hand that one over to the Son.
All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.
For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me.
And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all those he has given me,
but raise them up at the last day."
John 6:37-39