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If I recall correctly there was a lot of abuse in your past. This may be why you attract abusers now. Abuse survivors minds are altered from all the abuse. And that affects things such as body language, how you speak, especially about yourself. Abusive people can pick up on these signals and...

I disagree on the voting still, but that's ok. We don't need to agree. You're free to stick to your conviction and I'll stick with mine. We can still get along. Thank you. I don't know about self control haha. To me it's just natural to do those things. Not doing them feels wrong (for me). Will do.

Unfortunately this happens all the time on this site. People post seeking help, but never return. I don't know what causes this to be so common or why anyone would do such a thing. My guess is some don't want interaction, just answers. But people such as this, asking for interaction then...

No kids of my own and no trick or treaters here. Even though I love sweet stuff I learned to limit it over time. Largely due to a fear of getting diabetes. But also for my overall health. If you buy it for trick or treaters, you should throw it out afterwards if you have that much trouble with...

My point was you could take many things and say Christ didn't do them, but that doesn't mean it's wrong to do them or that the comparison doesn't work. As far as why I'm here, typically less than an hour a day, is I'm disabled. Have been for 15 years now. I don't leave my house except for...

I doubt sitting in a synagogue included name calling, mud slinging, personal attacks, calling people heretics, calling them unsaved, divisiveness, constant arguing, etc... I don't see Christ sitting behind a computer, on one forum site, for hours and hours a day. He seemed to be out among people...

How much time do you think Christ would sit on CC? Wouldn't he have bigger fish to multiply?

Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her". Only good for sex you say? Make you worldly you say? The bible stating a husband should love his wife the same as Christ loved the church? But yet you say marriage is only good for sex and will...

Thanks. But I couldn't understand any of the lyrics.

That's a nearly 3 hour long video, where the first 20 minutes of the video nothing happens (i stopped lookong aftet that). You couldn't have added a time stamp?

Porn is shown to have a similar type of addiction as a heroin addiction, and to be equally as strong. Don't be be lulled into safety by such a short time. Addicts can sometimes go a full year believing they are past the addiction, before it comes back full force. Think about that. One year not...

"a little background information will be helpful here before I relate it to Trump." You talked about watchman Nee, communist China, the Jews, Harris and quoted a scripture. Wheres the "relating it to Trump"? He's never mentioned again.

You never stopped to consider that if You're the only one in disagreement with everyone else that maybe everyone else is not the problem, but the lone complainer is?

You're right. But these mindsets in 20/30s is what leads to them being single beyond that. Because most people are married off by then. Not to mention the sense that a woman is "settling" for a man is not exactly a favorable idea to men. And may turn men away. It would me. Also it's younger...

The whole "girl boss" thing is rampant and has been for a few years. It's the ultrafemininist agenda that teaches women to hate men and see them as worthless. The "we don't need men, we don't want men" mindset. There are women that encourage other women to purposefully use and mistreat men just...

That sounds logical, and at times may be the right thing to do. Or maybe God is trying to slow you down to teach you something, such as learning to go to Him, rather than exercising your personal will and pushing forward without Him. Or what if the direction you're headed isn't the way He wants...

No point really in arguing with anyone. No one here has the ability to change anything. And long term users have a better understanding of the mindset of the site owner. Honestly I think the site owner put this forum up to stop people from messaging him directly with ideas. I don't know that...

I used to experience this a lot in my charismatic days. Since I've left those behind I've not had all the dramatic highs and lows. I think often times it's easy to get caught up in things when you're in a group. It reminds me of people in rehab. They spends weeks or months in a supportive...

Unlike last time I selected multiple options. Babies in general make me nervous. I've never spent much time around them, maybe held one once, when I was younger, did not enjoy it. It's not that I dislike babies so much as they make me anxious. They're so vulnerable, soft and can't well...

I'd say don't go. I was a Christian teen as well, and went to a party. I was uncomfortable the entire time, which wasn't long. I left within a half hour or so. Mostly teen parties are, as mentioned above, full of sex, drugs and alcohol. Which means you'll either be like I was, and constantly...