Using discernment is not the same as judging when you walk into a church that is full of the spirit you feel it but when you enter into one that is spiritually dry you also can feel it the spirit knows the spirit and so using our spiritual senses we are able to discern whether or not one is alive or not
Yeah I figured you would say that so let me rephrase it you can sense whether a church is alive or not using discernmentDiscernment and feelings aren't the same things.
I have been to many churches in my time of being saved from the day I was saved in 2012 to now there is a pattern I have seen in every church well almost every church I have been to and that is how it just seemed to be spiritually dry not dead not exactly but dry.
The sermons are nice the lessons are good but when I looked around all I could ask myself is where is the spirit? where is the life? Think of worship for instance, true worship will have you raising your hands to the sky as if you cannot reach high enough it will have your body unable to stop moving and dancing it will have your spirit and soul trying to praise him in such a way that it seems you cannot muster the words to describe your praise to him to honro him to worship at the very throne of God.
But many simply sing along and there is a vast difference between true worship and just singing along. then there is the lack of the spirit perhaps the most troublesme thing I have encountered one church I went to the spirit was so rich there the second I walked in the doors the spirit hit me like a wall his presence was thick and rich in that place and I have not encountered this in any other church save for that one time I was able to go to that specific church
Every other church if you use what I call your spiritual radar you cannot feel him you cannot sense him he is not tangiable in many churches and many churches teach milk when meat is needed
in the season of hunger one needs meat to satisfy their souls but many churches have watered down the gospel many have unknowingly fed milk instead of meat.
Is this just me or is the church just spiritually dry? am I being to critical or has anyone else experienced this when going to a church?
Most of the membership of online forums are NOT regular attendees of any church services and don't have friends that regularly attend church services. They merely claim Chrust as their Savior and possibly engage in theological debate but abjectly draw the line at the 2nd Greatest Commandment given by Jesus and all other associated commandments and directives. They simply do not own anything resembling following it. If following "love thy neighbor " was a crime there is always insufficient evidence to get a conviction. They never pray in a group or significantly give of their resources to anyone.
No I am not assuming anything and it isn't as if I just walk into a place and instantly decide whether they are on fire or not I attend the churches regularly to find out for myself and after a month or two you can easily tell if they are or not.Ok....
First off you are assuming a LOT of things about other people.
You see the surface and what other people allow you to see....not necessarily what is really there...
Most on fire for God people are trying not to scare the "normals" that walk among us believers.
Secondly,
Most of the membership of online forums are NOT regular attendees of any church services and don't have friends that regularly attend church services. They merely claim Chrust as their Savior and possibly engage in theological debate but abjectly draw the line at the 2nd Greatest Commandment given by Jesus and all other associated commandments and directives. They simply do not own anything resembling following it. If following "love thy neighbor " was a crime there is always insufficient evidence to get a conviction. They never pray in a group or significantly give of their resources to anyone.
So....there's that.
Woah...Do you actually have concrete proof that what you've said about all the members of this forum is true?
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No I am not assuming anything and it isn't as if I just walk into a place and instantly decide whether they are on fire or not I attend the churches regularly to find out for myself and after a month or two you can easily tell if they are or not.
Also you yourself are assuming a lot about the people on the forums while you are partially correct I don't think it is to the degree your thinking
True good leader ship is the main issue and it heavily depends on the leadership whether a church stays alive or on fire but the sad reality is that good leadership is not exactly common these days and also being a leader of a church is a very stressful job but this is why not just anyone is fit to be oneAs far as "dead" or "alive on fire" its usually a matter of leadership for the Church and however that was made to happen.
I've seen supposedly dead churches come to life with new leadership only to become dead again when the good leadership is lured away by another larger church. It's not that people want to be dead and unexcited....but they simply don't have the vision that good leadership can bring.
And as another poster has stated....the pickings for leadership are extremely slim.
When a notice goes out that a church is looking for a pastor....on average over 11,000 resumes with video are launched at the church.
Of those 11,000 maybe a third to a quarter will have the requisite educational background or any sort of experience that would result in serious consideration.
It only goes downhill from there.
A LOT of work (100's of hours) whittling down to find a bakers dozen to really investigate with background checks, visiting their current church, and etc.
Just to then navigate the internal church politics to put forth 3 or 4 truly viable candidates.
And by this time....it's depressing.
Woah...
I'm not using the broad brush you are claiming. And I'm not guessing either.
MANY here, that are regulars on this forum, have publicly said that they don't regularly attend services or Small groups. They have their reasons which I personally consider lame but that's not exactly the subject matter at hand.
It's not all. But I'd dare say that the "non attendees" by a large margin, outnumber those that have a church home. (2:1 at a minimum)
It's not anything new....people are deceitful even deceiving themselves. An avatar is used for REASONS and personal security is not the whole of it. I've been a member of several various Christian forums. Been on several site meetups and driven hours to meet others. And the numbers who actually get up on Sunday and show up at church to the point that others actually recognize them and know their name is rather depressing.
But there's always a few who do show....and sometimes it's easier to tell than with others who tend to be cagey about it. Others are outright deceitful about it....and others rather open about their non-attendance. (Mixed bag as always).
I'm kinda surprised that you hadn't noticed at this point.
As such I'll remind you of what you already know. Which is that Jesus said "wise as serpents but gentle as doves".
Yeah I figured you would say that so let me rephrase it you can sense whether a church is alive or not using discernment
Have you ever felt God's presence? how did you discern if that was really him or not? did ou not sense his spirit? or did you just assume it was him? how would you know without discernment?
There's a lot of active members that I've read the posts of over the years.I asked for CONCRETE PROOF that everone else can assess for themselves, like surveys or questionnaires, their own personal diaries or biographies, etc, not another post of your opinion
By the way, this forum has tens of thousands of forum members. You know ALL of them personally to make your assessment?
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There's a lot of active members that I've read the posts of over the years.
(Can't remember how many years I've been here at this point or at others....)
This one is still typical for many of the forums I've been a part of. It's not exactly exceptional. There's differences of course that make people post a bit differently and thread drift a bit more extreme than others. But when people tell you who they are or that they don't regularly attend any church....I tend to believe them.
As far as the "thousands"....many of them have maybe one or two posts (if that) and they haven't returned in years. I don't consider them active and I doubt they remember they even have a membership here. (You have only been here for three years)
I've been mod and admin for three other sites. There's nothing really outstanding for this group (some have metriculated from some of those sites to here...albeit with new avatar names)
Why on earth you believe to know the opposite of what I'm saying is kinda odd to me. Have I insulted you in some way? Or are you feeling guilty about not regularly attending services yourself?
Dunno.....if I insult someone I usually remember.
Carry on....believe what you wish. But this is the internet....not everyone is exactly transparent about themselves.
Ok....let's turn the tables. Give me CONCRETE PROOF they all do attend services of some sort.
There's a lot of active members that I've read the posts of over the years.
(Can't remember how many years I've been here at this point or at others....)
This one is still typical for many of the forums I've been a part of. It's not exactly exceptional. There's differences of course that make people post a bit differently and thread drift a bit more extreme than others. But when people tell you who they are or that they don't regularly attend any church....I tend to believe them.
As far as the "thousands"....many of them have maybe one or two posts (if that) and they haven't returned in years. I don't consider them active and I doubt they remember they even have a membership here. (You have only been here for three years)
I've been mod and admin for three other sites. There's nothing really outstanding for this group (some have metriculated from some of those sites to here...albeit with new avatar names)
Why on earth you believe to know the opposite of what I'm saying is kinda odd to me. Have I insulted you in some way? Or are you feeling guilty about not regularly attending services yourself?
Dunno.....if I insult someone I usually remember.
Carry on....believe what you wish. But this is the internet....not everyone is exactly transparent about themselves.
Ok....let's turn the tables. Give me CONCRETE PROOF they all do attend services of some sort.
Bad attitude?God also recently brought this to my mind and heart about your bad attitude:
Philippians 2:3 :
"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves."This is why I felt unsettled about you're bad attitude toward forum members in general. You should take heed to what this verse says.
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