When you speak of responsibility [ask, seek, knock, repent, believe] you seem to imply that if you do these things you are saved. But, I disagree due to the fact that most men do this as an insurance policy. They neither know God nor have a real desire to know Him in any way.Jesus Himself expressed GRFS or man's responsibility even more succinctly using three, four and five letter words: “Ask… seek… knock…” (Matt. 7:7) and “Repent” (Matt. 4:17). This indicates that God graces every sinful soul with the ability or opportunity to repent and seek salvation (cf. 1Tim. 2:3-4, 2Tim. 2:25, Ezek. 33:11, cf. Rev. 3:5), which might be called “seeking grace” (Tit. 2:11).
I don't disagree that these things are important for the man of God. But, they are of no value until God has humbled you and given you a new heart and a desire to please Him! In other words, He has already saved you!