When a man and a woman have an argument, if one goes through what was said there will be some lessons in it in retrospect. That was quite the little hoedown for a couple days there when several women took it up with one man for purportedly saying the wrong thing. I thought they was going to lynch mob me for a moment there! Mind if I peel back the layers to see what is beneath?
I observed that women don't fight fair. They can be very vicious as you heard! Apparently they can't be trusted either. One of them said she would fix me a sandwich but it would have a secret ingredient and showed me turd emoji. I asked for a sandwich and she gave me a turd.
I'm sure all you women think that was cute and funny, but was it really? Or did that merely show the condition of her heart? I ran across this today as I was reading:
Matthew 25:35-40
35 for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in;
36 I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.’
37 “Then the righteous will answer Him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see You hungry and feed You, or thirsty and give You drink?
38 When did we see You a stranger and take You in, or naked and clothe You?
39 Or when did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?’
40 And the King will answer and say to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.’.../NKJV
I saw myself in that. I am the least of the brethren. I am a Brother in Christ to all of you people on this board. You are my Brothers & Sisters. I was told I was so bad that I would not be a member of this board for very long because of it! Remember?! so Most likely to be voted to be banned I am I am, lol. The least of the brethren.
Question? Inasmuch as I had been asking for a sandwich and was handed a turd emoji (a sandwich would have been just as easy to post.) instead, and I, the least of the brethren....is that the same thing as her serving Jesus a turd sandwich? Of course not really and I know that ok, just sayin, arent we supposed to treat everything we do as unto the Lord?
Colossians 3:23
23 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;.../KJV
I dont see any exceptions listed. So what can the way this young lady handled her situation? She doesn't fight fair!. She said she is not trustworthy! (secret, ingredient), does things on the sly (Let's hope she's more fair to her husband!) and if if the young lady Believer had been on her game and trying to emulate the Lord to everyone she missed the mark.
I understand I gave her a hard time. She took what I said personal (mistake) and asked me to reword it and basically apologize. I wasn't fond of her tone so I resisted! (LOL!!) and said, why should I? I don't know you and dont like your tone. Maybe after you've invited me over for dinner or at least made me a sandwich, to lighten the mood a little if possible?
I was on a different website one time arguing with a full blown pronounced Feminist who took me to task, Lol. I told her oh go make me a sandwich, as a retort and she sent me a digital sandwich and I got a kick out of that! She didnt send me a turd, lol. and even though we were arguing she did what she could with what was at her fingertips, which showed me that she believed in what she was saying and from the good side of her heart.
Getting a turd emoji tells me that came from the dark side of her heart. People must learn to fight from the good side of their heart. Scripture tells us to love everyone and if we have not charity we are nothing. Have you ever noticed that in general, people dont fight fair. They escalate too quickly. You see how people are in general to each other? Not very nice.
You can look in the OT and see how people treated their enemies in olden days. Wow what a difference. People treated their enemies better than modern man treats his friends usually.