This was asked of me as well, with the addition of are you smarter than someone else etc. I didnt know how to answer.
Now I do:
Here are just a few potential factors for some accepting or rejecting Christ, the gospel, and/or God’s word:
Rejection:
1) Refusal to be persuaded (Rom 10:21, Rom 2:8, Acts 19:9, Jer 9:5-6, II Thess 2:10-11, Rom 1:21-22) Some specifically refuse to be persuaded by the gospel. Some motives scripture gives for this are self-interest, obstinance, self-deception, and hardened hearts.
2) Contradicting; that is, those who argue against the gospel because they hope to thwart it. Those who are argumentative have started with their conclusion, don’t want to consider they might be wrong, and want to keep others from concluding differently. (Rom 10:21, Acts 13:25, Acts 19:8, II Cor 5:10) Pride and jealousy can be motives.
3) Neglect; not giving thoughts of salvation a high priority (Heb 2:1-4, Matt 22:5, Psa 14:1)
This can happen when someone doesn’t view spiritual matters as significant, whether due to apathy or deliberately dismissing the metaphysical.
4) Stubbornness (Isa 46:12, Ezek 2:4)
5) Self-righteousness (Matt 9:11-12, Jer 8:21-22, Lk 10:29, Rom 10:3)
6) Wanting more and more ‘signs’ as proof (I Cor 1:23, Matt 11:20-22, Jn 6:26-27)
7) Love of sin (Jn 3:19, Prov 2:13-4, Prov 8:36, I Jn 2:15-17. II Thess 2:10-12)
8) Fear of exposure of sin (Jn 3:20, Job 24:15-17)
9) Delusion (Isa 44:19-20, Rom 1:25, II Tim 3:13)
10) No opportunity (Rom 10:14)
11) Think they are a child of God but don’t truly follow God (John 10)
12) Don’t believe testimony of Moses or scripture (Jn 5:46-47, Lk 16:29-31)
13) Try to achieve salvation by works/merit (Col 2:22-23, Gal 5:4, Gal 3:11, Rom 3:10-28)
14) Seeks glory from man, not God (Jn 5:44)
Acceptance:
1) A noble and generous heart (Luke 8:15, Acts 17:11) This is not a ‘sinless’ heart, but one prepared for salvation and ready ready to embrace the word and keep it
2) Trusting as a child (Mk 10:14)
3) Waiting for salvation (Luke 2:25, Acts 13:26-48)
4) Believe testimony (Jn 10:42, II Thess 1:10)
5) Study scriptures (II Tim 3:15, Acts 17:11, Jn 20:31)
6) Humility (Matt 23:12, James 4:10, Psa 25:8-10)
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