Why? How is what he's saying wrong. Look NONE of us are born saved. No not one. Right? We are born of the flesh and because of Adam falling we are ALL born with a dead spirit. We are born broken. That means the little baby that hasn't been able to decide to sin yet, is still born broken. That is the horror and point of the whole situation. Now before you go off and hide from this conversation as well, hear me out. This does NOT mean I believe a baby goes to hell. It just so happens I know the Creator of all reality personally, and He is loving, just, and merciful on a level we can't even understand until He opens our eyes to it. This God get's ALL the glory for a reason, and this God made a way for these born broken people to be born again, to be reconciled to Him as we were created to be. We know this about Him for sure and this God forgives those who don't deserve it. There is no way His grace and mercy, through the blood of Jesus, doesn't wash the baby clean, who then awakens in Jesus presents.
That's the God I know and have been redeemed by. I understand why this topic causes such emotion, it's literally life and death, but to say that every single one of us it born into sin, that we are broken and disconnected from God is not a wicked thing, it's the truth and why our GLORIOUS God did everything He did to make a way to reconcile us to Himself. I don't think this should cause us to dislike each other either. I hope you at least get where I'm coming from, our brokenness goes beyond our sentient choice to sin. The ONLY reason the bby is saved is because of Gods great love and Mercy, and the ONLY way it's saved is because in Grace God put's the babies brokenness on the cross and then applies Gods righteousness to that baby. That's why the baby doesn't go to hell, not because it's born without sin.