I wonder if non believers ever come to this site? Surely they do. Or what about the new believer, or the brother or sister who is weak in the faith?
I'm trying to put myself in their shoes and imagine how they must perceive all of the disagreements they witness here.
If you were to ask 100 random Mormons or JW's what they believe, I would wager that 99 of them would give you the same answer. How is it that the cultists have their doctrines so buttoned down, but those of us who profess to have a personal relationship with Truth personified, can't come to agreement on even the most basic of biblical doctrines?
Are these arguments even necessary? Are we truly "earnestly contending for the faith", or is that just the cover we use to hide our arrogance and our pride? Why is it so important for us at times, self included, to convince someone that we are right and they are wrong? Do we ever take the time to examine our hearts or even our posts for that matter, to see if we are really walking in love towards our brothers and sisters, with gentleness and humility? Are we ever mindful that while all of us may not be at the same stage of our spiritual journey, we were all saved from the same corrupt nature, or redeemed by the same precious blood?
I get a little snarky sometimes. And I'm embarrassed to admit that on occasion I cross the line into rudeness. I've even caught myself making direct accusation against a brothers character or intelligence. This is shameful behavior and unworthy of anyone who names the name of Christ.
There are a hundred ways to call a man a fool. Can we be so focused on the warnings of Paul, that we completely neglect the warnings of the Lord Himself.
There is a time to speak and a time to keep silent. Do we allow the Holy Spirit to decide for us which is which? Or do we neglect His guidance altogether as we furiously hammer away at our keyboards with our latest argument or rebuttal, or not so cleverly concealed insult?
“If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain.”
"Be not rash with thy mouth, and let not thine heart be hasty to utter anything before God. For God is in heaven and thou upon earth: therefore let thy words be few."
“If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.”
The tongue is an unruly member. If man is to give an account for every idle word he speaks, will he not give an account for every idle word he types as well? Does the anonymity the internet provides tempt us away from restraint? Would we speak to our brother in the same manner we do in this forum, were he standing directly before us?
I'm asking a lot of questions.
I am not pretending to have any answers. I do have my own thoughts on why these things are so, but I do not expect they would be all that well received.
So I'll just leave you with the questions. We are commanded to examine ourselves to see if we are in the faith. I believe it would serve us well to also examine ourselves to see if we are operating in love.
They will know we are Christians by our love. Please don't misunderstand me. I know the eternal significance of sound doctrine.
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.