Not seeing how “in Him”, negates the part where Paul says HE chose us.
What does the text actually say?
"For
He chose us (hEmas) in Him before the foundation of the world
to be holy and blameless in His presence."
Ephesians 1:4
"
Us" is "
the church". Paul does not say "He chose
each of us (ekaston hEmOn) in Christ before the foundation of the world." He says "He chose
us (hEmas), i.e. the community of the church, in Christ before the foundation of the world;
not specific individuals before the foundation of the world, who ended up added to the church.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, 4 even as
he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love 5 he predestined
us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, 6 to the praise of his glorious
grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. 7
In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of
our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, 8 which he lavished upon
us, in all wisdom and insight 9
making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose,
which he set forth in Christ 10 as a plan for the fullness of time,
to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth.
11
In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will, 12 so that
we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory. 13
In him you also, when
you heard the word of truth, the gospel of
your salvation, and believed in him,
were sealed with the gromised Holy Spirit, 14 who is the guarantee of
our inheritance until
we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.
God's purpose is not about you personally and individually. God's purpose from the foundation of the world has been to unite all things in heaven and on earth in Jesus Christ. v. 9