I Don't Like Men
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This was started in 2019, lets see how do I feel today? Yep, still am disgusted by men haha but I think I have a better handle of my emotions I reread the thread it is hilarious. Anywho?, hope everyone had lovely holidays yada yada etc (whistling).
Guess who's back? Back again .....
This was started in 2019, lets see how do I feel today? Yep, still am disgusted by men haha but I think I have a better handle of my emotions I reread the thread it is hilarious. Anywho?, hope everyone had lovely holidays yada yada etc (whistling).
I'm thinking someone needs some ATT.
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Presumably you have reasons. Some male(s) have hurt you or let you down or both. I can give you some general advice, but not knowing the exact reason makes it impossible to be specific.
1. Unrealistic expectations. There are no infallible men. Put a man on a pedestal and he will fall off, likely landing on top you and crushing your hopes and dreams
2. Abuse. Some men really are insensitive jerks and belittle people at the drop of a hat. Physical abuse is wicked.
3. Men are not women. We don't think like women, our interests are entirely different, we are task oriented and we can be less than subtle in expressing our maleness. If a woman tells me something, I want to know what she wants me to do about it. If the answer is "nothing", then very likely I'm not interested in the conversation. Women are inclined to take offence at that.
Most women respond with hurt and then unforgiveness. This is the root cause of most relationship problems. Unforgiveness is often the result of wounded pride. Whatever the cause, we have no right to harbour unforgiveness. It affects our fellowship with God and poisons our attitudes to people. If unforgiveness is not dealt with, it festers and ends up in bitterness and resentment. That can lead to arthritis, sometimes crippling.
The good news is that you do not have to remain bound by unforgiveness. As long as you are willing to forgive, God has provided the answer. The following article is quite long but well worth reading. It can change your life if you will take it to heart.
https://www.christianlife.org.au/can-you-forgive-from-your-heart
1. Unrealistic expectations. There are no infallible men. Put a man on a pedestal and he will fall off, likely landing on top you and crushing your hopes and dreams
2. Abuse. Some men really are insensitive jerks and belittle people at the drop of a hat. Physical abuse is wicked.
3. Men are not women. We don't think like women, our interests are entirely different, we are task oriented and we can be less than subtle in expressing our maleness. If a woman tells me something, I want to know what she wants me to do about it. If the answer is "nothing", then very likely I'm not interested in the conversation. Women are inclined to take offence at that.
Most women respond with hurt and then unforgiveness. This is the root cause of most relationship problems. Unforgiveness is often the result of wounded pride. Whatever the cause, we have no right to harbour unforgiveness. It affects our fellowship with God and poisons our attitudes to people. If unforgiveness is not dealt with, it festers and ends up in bitterness and resentment. That can lead to arthritis, sometimes crippling.
The good news is that you do not have to remain bound by unforgiveness. As long as you are willing to forgive, God has provided the answer. The following article is quite long but well worth reading. It can change your life if you will take it to heart.
https://www.christianlife.org.au/can-you-forgive-from-your-heart
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There's a lot of good stuff in Gideon300's post. And I think he kind of hinted at something worth specifically pointing out. I'm not trying to be nosy, and if this isn't helpful then please by all means just ignore it, but it seems like you are struggling with something but that you also haven't really shared what it is. (Admittedly I did not read the entire thread beginning to end, so I may have missed something.) I think Gideon300 subtly indicated that no one can help with that struggle unless you open up enough to share what it is.
I certainly understand that this makes you vulnerable and open to even more hurt. For that reason, if you need someone to unburden yourself with without more pain, it might be a good idea to have a quiet private conversation with someone either here or in real life about things. And it seems to me (perhaps I am wrong) that Gideon300 has offered his ear if you care to share with someone.
Someone has to make the first step to connect and communicate or no progress will be made.
I certainly understand that this makes you vulnerable and open to even more hurt. For that reason, if you need someone to unburden yourself with without more pain, it might be a good idea to have a quiet private conversation with someone either here or in real life about things. And it seems to me (perhaps I am wrong) that Gideon300 has offered his ear if you care to share with someone.
Someone has to make the first step to connect and communicate or no progress will be made.
Oh, welp the thread is two years old not sure why you think I'm struggling with something? I think for now I am more concerned with the current events that are unfolding daily. And I think that if he wanted to have a private conversation he would have? but thanks though I think lol.
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the thing about boys is when they pee and miss their target.
Some junior teachers say they dont like to help boys tie their shoelaces because they feel wet...
Girls generally dont have this problem. Oh but girls can get into the nastiest cat fights. I've seen more problems with girls getting jealous or envious of each other than boys.
Some junior teachers say they dont like to help boys tie their shoelaces because they feel wet...
Girls generally dont have this problem. Oh but girls can get into the nastiest cat fights. I've seen more problems with girls getting jealous or envious of each other than boys.