I Don't Like Men

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VineyardsOfEngedi

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I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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Oh nice, my other threads are not published and I ask this one not to be and is, very nice. Thanks.
 
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Sounds like a visit to the Ladies' forum is in order. There are many Christian sisters here who can help you work through that.

God bless! :cool:
 
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Ghoti2

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I think that dislike would be more important, or less important, depending opon if you are male or female.
 
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17Bees

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What is it that disgusts you so, Vinyard?
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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Can't answer that question without anyone getting offended, so just disregard this thread.
 
Nehemiah6

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
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Easy. Meet a fine Christian young man and move on. You have locked yourself in your own prison, so you have to unlock yourself.
 
Dino246

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
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I'm sorry that you feel this way. I am certain that Jesus can help you sort through it all. If you would like the help of a professional Christian counselor, I can recommend a couple.
 
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Nehemiah6 said:
Easy. Meet a fine Christian young man and move on. You have locked yourself in your own prison, so you have to unlock yourself.
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Respectfully, this is naive, insensitive, and just plain terrible advice.
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
Who's paranoid?
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You are. What you stated in your OP is a PARANOID state of mind.

The normal state of mind for single men and women is to SEEK OUT another person of the opposite sex in order to have a loving long-term relationship which involves children and family. It takes effort on both sides.

You asked for advice, and the best advice is to get out of your own paranoid prison and move on. We create our own paranoia, and we can also get rid of it if we choose to do so.
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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Nehemiah6 said:
You are. What you stated in your OP is a PARANOID state of mind.

The normal state of mind for single men and women is to SEEK OUT another person of the opposite sex in order to have a loving long-term relationship which involves children and family. It takes effort on both sides.

You asked for advice, and the best advice is to get out of your own paranoid prison and move on. We create our own paranoia, and we can also get rid of it if we choose to do so.
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Interesting, so I am paranoid because I am looking for someone of the opposite sex, and that is why I am disgusted?
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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Nehemiah6 said:
You are. What you stated in your OP is a PARANOID state of mind.

The normal state of mind for single men and women is to SEEK OUT another person of the opposite sex in order to have a loving long-term relationship which involves children and family. It takes effort on both sides.

You asked for advice, and the best advice is to get out of your own paranoid prison and move on. We create our own paranoia, and we can also get rid of it if we choose to do so.
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I read this wrong haha.. How does my op speak of my state of mind?
 
Dino246

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Nehemiah6 said:
Why is is terrible advice? Paranoia is not a healthy thing at all.
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It's terrible advice, because someone who is struggling with an emotional situation of this nature is in no condition to be starting a relationship. It is far better (and more respectful to a future partner) to deal with the situation first.
 
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