- Get remarried
- Work at a daycare
- Apply for higher-paying jobs
- Go to night school for higher-paying jobs
- Move to a location where family may help out
- Move to a location with a lower cost of living
- Research all of your local areas of support like Churches who offer daycare (maybe cheaper)
- Work from home
- Live off less
- Cook your meals compared to fast food
- Get out or stay out of debt
- Invest your money wisely
- Safe-sex equals fewer kids which are more mouths to feed
- Get rid of your animals
- Get rid of cable, or any unnecessary subscriptions
- Use your heating, AC, and electricity wisely
- Grow your own food or have easy to care for animals like chickens you can harvest eggs or kill to eat.
You will be amazed at what our ancestors did to survive. Even our grandparents.
1.) Marrying for financial security will yield an entirely new problem.
2.) This could work. Perhaps if they all did this, demand goes down thereby decreasing overall costs.
3.) High probability since she was a stay at home military wife/mother, she doesn't have the qualifications for those higher-paying jobs.
4.) So she has her own daycare but now has to pay someone to watch her kid while she goes to night school, assuming she gets grants and/or scholarships so she doesn't have to pay for higher education. Maybe if she drinks coffee throughout the day she may not even need to sleep ever.
5.) Good option if family is available and she has the means to move. I would think this was already being utilize if possible.
6.) Texas is a great state with many opportunities and has a low cost of living, though, this same scenario exists even here.
7.) Good option.
8.) Usually jobs that allow working from home require some skill that would be needed that she probably didn't train/go to school for.
9.) I guess she could live in a tent, eat ramen noodles, use wash clothes instead of toilet paper, and bathed in a local creek so she could save even more money. If her earning potential is below poverty level, I doubt there is much to cut to begin with.
10.) Fast food, while being exponentially more unhealthy, can actually be cheaper. I suppose beggars can't be choosers.
11.) Debt is a form of bondage, so I agree with this. However, sometimes people choose to go in debt so their family can eat. It's a terrible situation for them to be in. If people are so hungry they would be willing to eat dead humans, I can't blame those who use credit cards to go grocery shopping.
12.) Probably doesn't have any money to invest to begin with if they are in debt, unemployed, or starving.
13.) 100% agree with this.
14.) Just eat your animals right? Two birds one stone.
15.) I would like to assume people already did this. If not, excellent advice. It's a waste to have cable if your kids are starving.
16.) If it's freezing or over 100 F, there's not much they can do really. But sure, they might save $5 if they consciously try to use less power. $5 is $5 dollars.
17.) So after she is done putting in 40 hours at her day care business, comes home from night school so she can be more skilled and apply for higher-paying jobs, she can relax and grow a garden when she gets home at midnight. Hopefully the apratment complex lets her grow the food on her porch. By the way, sleep is for the weak.
There are a few good pieces here, but it's not really a game changing plan. Situations like this happen all the time and it's always easier to give suggestions and ideas than it is to make a noticeable positive impact in their lives. I appreciate you at least coming up with a list though, I don't claim to have any answer to help them, but recognize there is absolutely a problem here.