I most certainly do respect many fine Christian people in the major denominations. I was a pastor in the AOG many years ago and have retained some of the connections I had in that environment.
I also had some experience in what you term “nondenominational” groups. Our experience back there (the 1970s) was not good, but I have had contact on the internet in recent times with some groups, such as Home Church and Simple Church. I found that most stimulating and there were a lot of fine Christians among them although there were some unique problems in that setup.
However, none of this has persuaded me to sweep under the carpet some of the fundamental problems of the church institutions, as we know them today.
To my mind one of the major problems with institutional churches is that they, to a large extent, inhibit the expression of the true spiritual worth of the lay people. While this is more pronounced in some than others it exists either consciously or unconsciously in all.
Each of us is meant to be involved in the building up of the Body of Christ.
From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. (Ephesians 4:16, NIV)
We are empowered with the ability and the authority to carry out the role (small or large) that God has allocated to us. He does this by means of the “Gifts of the Spirit.”
These spiritual gifts are imparted to each ones of us at the time of the new birth. They remain with us whether or not they are recognised or utilised.
Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. (1 Corinthians 12:7, NIV)
We wrestle not against flesh and blood. It is not that degree in theology that provides us with the spiritual authority that is required to do this work.
This hardly scratches the surface, but I will leave it there.
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