Also, can you show me a scripture that states grace is "irresistible" ........this is really the crux of your entire system so make a case for it.
Romans 9:16 ;
Philippians 2:12 ;
John 6:29 ;
Acts 13:48
My turn ... show me a verse where it says you can resist God's call to salvation. (Aside: I rarely get a response)
Can you show me a scripture that states believing in Jesus for salvation... as in yielding to Him is a meritorious work in God's view?
No, because we are not saved by 'yielding to Him' if by this you mean 'yielding of our own independent free will. There are few verses that support your ideas in this area. The verses that are out there say things like "you must believe to be saved" but they don't say WHY you believe ... so you assume it is because of your ability to choose by 'free will' whereas the bible contradicts you ... Example John 1:12-13 But to as many as did receive
and welcome Him, He gave the right [the authority, the privilege] to become children of God,
that is, to those who believe in (adhere to, trust in, and rely on) His name— 13 w
ho were born, not of blood [natural conception],
nor of the will of the flesh [physical impulse],
nor of the will of man [that of a natural father],
but of God [that is, a divine and supernatural birth—they are born of God—spiritually transformed, renewed, sanctified].
.... If you would be so kind as to exegete these verses for us in lieu of your doctrine of "we chose God and this causes God to chose us".
(Aside: I rarely get a response)