I most certainly can be wrong but God's Word never is and it is His Word I will defend. I can be pleasant unless someone is twisting the only words that count, the Word of God
Yes, so I am saying all of us here are interpreting God's word. While the latter is never wrong, our interpretation might be.
Using what you said, we may think they are twisting the word, but its only from our point of view. If we try to understand where the other party is coming from, we may then see that, hey, he or she might have good reasons why they think that way.
With that attitude always in mind, one will be less antagonistic when it comes to sharing our own interpretation. Who knows, the person we are sharing with may also end up more open to different points of views.