Well have you considered how the curses are laid out by how they fell. The woman being deceived was in the transgression. So it makes sense that the woman is to be subject to her husband because otherwise she is just going to listen to Satan.
God made man in his image. Out of man he made the woman whom is in the glory of man. Woman was made for man, not man for the woman. Male and female created God them.
Man was originally made to rule with God, and God did not think it robbery. The trickiness of the animal named Satan is that he has people think they can be like God by disobeying God, when in truth you were all ready like God, it is written that "you are gods, sons of the Most High." It is notable to this lie of Satan, that you can become like God by disobeying God, is the same lie which the woman ultimately fell for.
Doing that which God says about women and men is not bad as the wicked world would have you imagine. Rather it is very good to do what God and his holy men said, for they did not say it in vain, nor for opinion, but they wrote it that you might know what is right and acceptable to God.
1 Peter 3:1-7
1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Most of the virtues and duties listed in 1 Pet 3:1-6 apply to BOTH men
and women. They are part of the Christian lifestyle. Christian men are instructed to practice them too.
1 Peter 3:1 - they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives
Both men and women are instructed to win souls. Soul winning is part of the Great Commission.
He that wins souls is wise.
Proverbs 11:30
Paul himself (a man) won souls to Christ. 1 Corinthians 9:19
1 Peter 3:2 CHASTE CONVERSATION
BOTH men and women are
commanded to be chaste.
1 Thessalonians 4:1-8
1 Corinthians 7:1-5,
Colossians 3:5,
Ephesians 5:3,
Hebrews 13:4,
1 Corinthians 6:18,
Romans 13:13-14,
2 Timothy 2:22,
1 Peter 2:11
Chasity isn't just for women. Chasity is part of the Christian lifestyle.
In that same chapter of 1 Peter 3:4, after Peter instructs wives to have a quiet and GENTLE spirit, Paul instructs ALL Christians (men and women) to be gentle to others.
1 Peter 3:15.
Ephesians 4:2,
Philippians 4:5,
Titus 3:2,
Colossians 3:12,
Galatians 6:1.
Paul practiced gentleness.
2 Corinthians 10:1
Jesus IS gentle. Matthew 11:29
Gentleness is a fruit of the spirit. Galatians 5:22
1 Peter 3:4 MEEK
Jesus is meek. Matthew 11:29
Moses was meek. Num 12:3
Meekness is part of the Christian lifestyle. Men are not exempt.
Col 3:12
1 Peter 3:4 QUIET
BOTH men and women are instructed to be quiet.
Ecclesiastes 3:7
James 1:19
1 Timothy 2:2,
Proverbs 13:3
1 Thessalonians 4:11
Proverbs 11:12
Proverbs 10:19
Psalms 4:4
1 Peter 3:5 TRUST GOD
BOTH men and women are instructed to trust God.
Proverbs 3:5
Psalm 9:10
Psalm 84:12
Psalm 37:1-3
Psalm 115:11
Isaiah 26:4
1 Peter 3:6 SARAH OBEYED ABRAHAM
Genesis 21:12 describes a time when God told Abraham to listen to and obey
his wife, Sarah, as it related to a very important household decision. In that situation, God gave Sarah the decision making power.
1 Peter 3:6 DO NOT GIVE WAY TO FEAR
BOTH men and women are told “do not
fear.”
John 14:27,
Philippians 4:6
Matthew 10:31
Some men like to quote 1 Peter 3:1-6
as a way of putting and keeping women in their so-called place. However, you generally won't hear them going on and on about a man's duty to win souls (within a marriage) be chaste, gentle, meek, quiet, trust God, listen to wisdom from their wives and not give way to fear.