Unfortunately, it's a very common problem, even among the most sincere and devout. (Just read through the threads on the forum - there is always an abundance of posts from those struggling with this or have someone around them who is struggling.)
I genuinely do feel sorry for anyone struggling with an addiction and am more than happy to pray for and try to be supportive of them however I can, without enabling. Everyone struggles with something and we all need forgiveness and encouragement.
But if I am to be told about following men's leadership in the church, I need to see examples of male leaders who are consistent in living up to the 1 Timothy 3 qualifications I'm always told about (especially as a single, since I don't have a husband to present my questions to.) Of course, porn isn't mentioned specifically on this list but it goes against purity, which is what God calls for.
It is my sincere prayer that the men who tell me I need to follow men in the church would be given the strength to live up to those standards themselves.
Not that women are off the hook in any way at all... Just that if God wants men to lead, and if men insist on leading (which would be a good thing in God's eyes), may God also help the men who teach these things live up to the qualifications He has set for those who teach.
I genuinely do feel sorry for anyone struggling with an addiction and am more than happy to pray for and try to be supportive of them however I can, without enabling. Everyone struggles with something and we all need forgiveness and encouragement.
But if I am to be told about following men's leadership in the church, I need to see examples of male leaders who are consistent in living up to the 1 Timothy 3 qualifications I'm always told about (especially as a single, since I don't have a husband to present my questions to.) Of course, porn isn't mentioned specifically on this list but it goes against purity, which is what God calls for.
It is my sincere prayer that the men who tell me I need to follow men in the church would be given the strength to live up to those standards themselves.
Not that women are off the hook in any way at all... Just that if God wants men to lead, and if men insist on leading (which would be a good thing in God's eyes), may God also help the men who teach these things live up to the qualifications He has set for those who teach.
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