How to identify the right partner for love among your female friends?

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Tommy379

Tommy379

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LaVieEnRose said:
I never get tickets- and here I was, thinking it was due to my white privilege! I had no idea police officers give ugly chicks a pass on traffic violations to give us a break, I thought all white women got out of getting tickets regardless of looks.
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I heard word you be good lookin, but maybe you don't know it.

I look like a pitpull, but I pretend I'm hot. Makes me feel better.
 
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Susanna

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A friend of mine pulled over a guy who was way beyond the speed limit, and he tried to get a pass by being flirtatious, telling her how good looking she was. She told him if he’d say that in court he would be committing perjury. He got a ticket. Hahaha
 
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LaVieEnRose

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Tommy379 said:
I heard word you be good lookin, but maybe you don't know it.

I look like a pitpull, but I pretend I'm hot. Makes me feel better.
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You’ve obviously been talking to my mother or blind people.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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Tommy379 said:
Why would your mother lie?
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Mothers are notorious for being delusional about the looks of their children. No mother thinks her own kids are ugly. It would quite literally, be a reflection of herself.
 
Tommy379

Tommy379

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LaVieEnRose said:
Mothers are notorious for being delusional about the looks of their children. No mother thinks her own kids are ugly. It would quite literally, be a reflection of herself.
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My mother thought I was ugly.
 
tourist

tourist

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LaVieEnRose said:
You know how it is with ugly chicks, we are desperate for male attention. Heck, I make traffic violations on purpose just so a man will be compelled to talk to me for a few minutes.
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I have seen one of your previous avatars and have to say that you are quite pretty and certainly not an ugly chick, if there even is such a person. No man would be compelled to talk to you as they would gladly do this on their own. I get the loneliness thing though and desiring someone to talk to that close your level of perception and understanding.
 
NotImportant

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1. Ignore all what these people say.
2. Eat the Word of God.
3. Seek understanding and sharpening of mind.
4. Discern!!!
5. Do what is pleasing to God.
6. Behold, a new day, blessings.
7. He will lead your way into all Truth.

~ confess into the Living God and be prepared to behold things that you have not planned and foresaw.

Lastly, give praise to God for everything that you will blessed with.

(short notice, some can stray from His Spirit but don't be worried, just abide in the Lord, he knows the heart)

Just wait upon the Lord in everything ... I know it's hard but everything else comes and goes and is not eternal...
The seed planted in good ground produces most fruit in the right season.
 
maxwel

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LaVieEnRose said:
God is not a cosmic Santa Claus or a genie. He is not going to “give” you a wife. There is a thing called free will. Who is to say any of the women in your friend club would even consider dating you, much less marry you? Every single one of them may say “no thanks” to your magnanimity in dating the one you think is the most likely to be “given” to you. You presume these women may be interested in you, at all.
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God will definitely not GIVE you a wife.

A wife is something you have to pay for...
over and over and over.


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melita916

melita916

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maxwel said:
God will definitely not GIVE you a wife.

A wife is something you have to pay for...
over and over and over.
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so............. what are you saying? lol
 
NotImportant

NotImportant

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Don't listen to these false teachers, God made Eve for Adam and God joins two souls if He finds it pleasing.
Nothing is too hard for God.

Delight in the Lord and avoid these godless people that tell you that God cannot give, they don't have His Word abiding in them nor know the truthfulness of the same.

8 And the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 -> Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate. <-

Let me ask you all fakers that claim that God cannot give and boast in your pride of intellect: who said Babylon will take away Israel as captives and it happened ?
Who said: Let there be Light and Light was ?
Who makes people bad or good looking in the heart of others, a horror or a blessing to be beheld ?
Who says be fruitful and multiply and it happens ?

God can make you a wife out of a rock if He has it in His intention and Word for you, more beautiful and living than any one of these fakers and mockers that do not know His Spirit nor power. Do what is pleasing for God (help the helpless, feed the hungry, preach Righteousness, praise Him, relieve the oppressed) and He will surely bless you with the best, not with your intellect but it will happen as He intends it purely.
 
maxwel

maxwel

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melita916 said:
so............. what are you saying? lol
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I'm just trying to spread cheer, joy, and blissful harmony...


with the requisite portion of fear and trepidation.


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LaVieEnRose

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tourist said:
I have seen one of your previous avatars and have to say that you are quite pretty and certainly not an ugly chick, if there even is such a person. No man would be compelled to talk to you as they would gladly do this on their own. I get the loneliness thing though and desiring someone to talk to that close your level of perception and understanding.
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Sarcasm does not always convey itself in words. My post to Tommy was SUPPOSED to be scathingly sarcastic. But, as my sister has pointed out, my sarcasm is at such a level, few people even know I am being sarcastic.

This either means I am extremely good at sarcasm, or extremely bad.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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NotImportant said:
Don't listen to these false teachers, God made Eve for Adam and God joins two souls if He finds it pleasing.
Nothing is too hard for God.

Delight in the Lord and avoid these godless people that tell you that God cannot give, they don't have His Word abiding in them nor know the truthfulness of the same.

8 And the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 -> Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate. <-

Let me ask you all fakers that claim that God cannot give and boast in your pride of intellect: who said Babylon will take away Israel as captives and it happened ?
Who said: Let there be Light and Light was ?
Who makes people bad or good looking in the heart of others, a horror or a blessing to be beheld ?
Who says be fruitful and multiply and it happens ?

God can make you a wife out of a rock if He has it in His intention and Word for you, more beautiful and living than any one of these fakers and mockers that do not know His Spirit nor power. Do what is pleasing for God (help the helpless, feed the hungry, preach Righteousness, praise Him, relieve the oppressed) and He will surely bless you with the best, not with your intellect but it will happen as He intends it purely.
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With this post, I am inspired to go to my nearest home improvement store and buy a ton of rocks. Perhaps God will give me a block head.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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NotImportant said:
Don't listen to these false teachers, God made Eve for Adam and God joins two souls if He finds it pleasing.
Nothing is too hard for God.

Delight in the Lord and avoid these godless people that tell you that God cannot give, they don't have His Word abiding in them nor know the truthfulness of the same.

8 And the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 -> Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate. <-

Let me ask you all fakers that claim that God cannot give and boast in your pride of intellect: who said Babylon will take away Israel as captives and it happened ?
Who said: Let there be Light and Light was ?
Who makes people bad or good looking in the heart of others, a horror or a blessing to be beheld ?
Who says be fruitful and multiply and it happens ?

God can make you a wife out of a rock if He has it in His intention and Word for you, more beautiful and living than any one of these fakers and mockers that do not know His Spirit nor power. Do what is pleasing for God (help the helpless, feed the hungry, preach Righteousness, praise Him, relieve the oppressed) and He will surely bless you with the best, not with your intellect but it will happen as He intends it purely.
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No offense, but Adam and Eve kind of had no choice in the matter. What else was Eve going to do?

At the risk of sounding like a feminist, God does NOT give women to men.

“He who FINDS a wife, FINDS what is good, and receives favor from the Lord.”

Womenz got rights.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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maxwel said:
God will definitely not GIVE you a wife.

A wife is something you have to pay for...
over and over and over.


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Yes, those Russian ones fellers buy throught the internet.
 
NotImportant

NotImportant

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joke and mock all you want: Matthew 3:9
Genesis 2:7

it's always nice to inspect what matter of spirit lives inside you.
 
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