Well, I see you are making headway, forgiveness sometime takes time. And your salvation is not interupted for the lack of forgiveness, until you finally will not forgive. When you finally deny the promptings of the HS and refuse to forgive, your sins will finally not be forgiven of you. If you have such a mind as to not forgive, you will not be able to live with God and Jesus. They have forgiven all, you must be able to also, or no seat at their table.
Firstly I say that you have done across as saying they if you do not forgive you lose salvation, regardless.
I get the impression that if I committed one sin but died before I repented or someone who offended me like my sexual abuser and died before I forgave then I would lose my salvation.
In fact I'm sure in one conversation I asked you if I died on the first night without forgiving him then I would lose my salvation and you said yes I would.
Yet the first part of your second sentence does not come across like that.
I think the problem with what you are saying above is that you feel that the HS at some point says enough, your out.
If that were the case then neither you or I could place a time limit on it.
If that is the case then we cannot judge when someone has lost their salvation.
With regards to the seat at the table I disagree with you here.
It has nothing to do with us forgiving others and everything to do with faith in Jesus.
True genuine faith and not an easy meal ticket faith.
Isaiah 55:1-3
Invitation to the Lord’s Salvation
1 “Is anyone thirsty?
Come and drink—
even if you have no money!
Come, take your choice of wine or milk—
it’s all free!
2 Why spend your money on food that does not give you strength?
Why pay for food that does you no good?
Listen to me, and you will eat what is good.
You will enjoy the finest food.
3 “Come to me with your ears wide open.
Listen, and you will find life.
I will make an everlasting covenant with you.
I will give you all the unfailing love I promised to David.
John 6:28-29
28 They replied, “We want to perform God’s works, too. What should we do?”
29 Jesus told them, “This is the only work God wants from you: Believe in the one he has sent.”
John 6:32-40
32 Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, Moses didn’t give you bread from heaven. My Father did. And now he offers you the true bread from heaven.33 The true bread of God is the one who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.”
34 “Sir,” they said, “give us that bread every day.”
35 Jesus replied, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry again. Whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.36 But you haven’t believed in me even though you have seen me.37 However, those the Father has given me will come to me, and I will never reject them.38 For I have come down from heaven to do the will of God who sent me, not to do my own will.39 And this is the will of God, that I should not lose even one of all those he has given me, but that I should raise them up at the last day.40 For it is my Father’s will that all who see his Son and believe in him should have eternal life. I will raise them up at the last day.”
John 7:37-39
Jesus Promises Living Water
37 On the last day, the climax of the festival, Jesus stood and shouted to the crowds, “Anyone who is thirsty may come to me!38 Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the Scriptures declare, ‘Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.’ ”39 (When he said “living water,” he was speaking of the Spirit, who would be given to everyone believing in him. But the Spirit had not yet been given, because Jesus had not yet entered into his glory.)