I'd walk out on a pastor or Bible study leader who purposely used the s word. I wouldn't even wait until "all eyes closed, heads down" prayer time to do that like I usually do when I realize I'm in a loser church. I'd hit the door immediately.
Leaders of the flock, if they really are leaders, really do have a higher responsibility to live good lives. They are to be examples to the flock. If they don't have self control that is not being what Peter said to be in 1 Peter 5:3. They are not God's appointed leaders. They show that by their lives.
One time I went to a house church when I was looking for a church to attend. I walked into a house completely and utterly choked with the smell of tobacco. I figured if the leadership can't get a grip on a vice like smoking why should I expect to learn anything about growing up into the obedience of faith and victory over the flesh from them? I never went back. Sometimes you don't have to have the Spirit of discernment to know a false teacher from a real one. Their lives say all you need to know. The presence of the Spirit is most easily discerned by the fruit of the Spirit. No fruit-no Spirit. They can preach all they want about Jesus. But they show by their lives that they do not know him. They have service, but they do not have obedience. If they stay that way they'll be toast when Jesus comes back.
Leaders of the flock, if they really are leaders, really do have a higher responsibility to live good lives. They are to be examples to the flock. If they don't have self control that is not being what Peter said to be in 1 Peter 5:3. They are not God's appointed leaders. They show that by their lives.
One time I went to a house church when I was looking for a church to attend. I walked into a house completely and utterly choked with the smell of tobacco. I figured if the leadership can't get a grip on a vice like smoking why should I expect to learn anything about growing up into the obedience of faith and victory over the flesh from them? I never went back. Sometimes you don't have to have the Spirit of discernment to know a false teacher from a real one. Their lives say all you need to know. The presence of the Spirit is most easily discerned by the fruit of the Spirit. No fruit-no Spirit. They can preach all they want about Jesus. But they show by their lives that they do not know him. They have service, but they do not have obedience. If they stay that way they'll be toast when Jesus comes back.