You're asking us to do something that's wrong. You're asking us to judge. It not for us to judge others. Judge not, that ye be not judged. (Matt. 7:1)
I hear what you're saying, but,
fortunately, you're incorrect.
This isn't about
"judging others", according to your misusage of
Matthew 7:1 (which is almost always misused, to defend sin, to play the emotional card and to malign the using of judgment).
Biblically we can determine what is allowed to enter into heaven via Scripture. There is evidence of conversion, repentance, the new creature, all part and parcel of true conversion.
If we applied your view consistently, we could not preach that any person were lost, in sin, without hope, incapable of entering heaven due to whichever sinful state they find themselves.
We are to use judgment, and that is different than
"judging." Christians need to finally learn the difference, and discontinue using
Matthew 7:1 as a pretext that we are not to use any kind of judgment, or, if we do
"we're judging."
That is what the OP is asking us to do;
use judgment.
Biblically all sinners, unless converted, will not enter the kingdom of heaven. This includes *gasp* sodomites, transgendered, and also adulterers, thieves, and more;
1 Corinthians 6:9-11. Such
were those whom God saved in Corinth, note
Acts 18.
Will transgenders enter heaven? No. Not unless they are converted which includes repentance and belief in the Gospel. These are the conditions for all sinners, all will be lost unless they repent and believe the Gospel;
Luke 13:1-5.