Why is it that when cessationists read about 'tongues of men and of angels' most of them INSIST it must be hyperbole, but when they read chapter 12, some of them insist that there was someone cursing Christ? Paul is giving 'extremes' in both cases. He says that no one curses Christ by the Holy Ghost and noone says "Jesus is Lord" but by the Holy Ghost. He's giving two extreme examples.
It’s a law not subject to change, that today some men who are trusting in tongues as something we could do, must ignore that law at all costs.
1Co 14:22 Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not: but prophesying serveth not for them that believe not, but for them which believe.
There are many reasons that men do not want tongues to cease. Just as in the same way their hope is prophecy has not ceased. They desire more than what God has revealed.
The main reason, I would offer is they are looking to experience something that they can perform as a work, as a way of saying they have the "fullness of the Spirit", as if the He gave a partial amount . And the fullness was not one of the better things that accompany salvation, and men must work to receive the fullness of it.
It’s the same thing the unbelieving Jew, they did required as sign before they would believe God. This in the end is simply self-insurance, and produces self-righteousness. Especially knowing God is no longer bringing any new revelations. His revealed will , being sealed up till the end of time, with a warning not to add to it now that we no longer have it in part..
When we look at the law found in chapter 14 that defines the use of tongues as prophecy.(no difference)The adding to the word of God shows any new prophecy will fail seeing it is not of God. Therefore because tongues is prophecy, it will cease and has. The idea of any new knowledge vanishes away.
Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. For we know in part, and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. Co 13:8
I think the question we should ask is; are tongues from men as the things of men or of God as those belonging to God?