So I wanted to say something about a comment I read in another thread in another forum on here, just because I don't like getting off topic when people's pain is involved.
FYI, if someone is potentially, or high likely to end up going through a divorce, do not ever tell them to just "get over it". Don't tell them it's done and they just need to move on and forget it. It is far from that simple, as anyone who has actually been there will tell you. Not to mention that is the single most uncaring, and disrespectful piece of advice you can give them. If you've never dealt with it, keep your mouth shut! And if the person who made the comment I am referring to is reading this and doesn't know who I am talking about, I weep for the potential damage that could be inflicted now or in the future with their "help".