In reading this again, I see where I'm not quite sure what "MadHermit" is trying to say in saying that "our job as Christians is not to communicate the truth, but to communicate the truth in the way that makes the difference." I think he means that we should not just teach the truth, but teach it in a way that Jesus would. And I agree with "kaylagrl" that we are called to stand for the truth regardless of the consequences. So where can we draw our example? Jesus and John the Baptist were the most harsh on the religious Pharisees who had turned religion into an idol totally absent of God's love, mercy, or justice. God demanded the death penalty for the world's consistent rebellion, and then took that death penalty Himself in the most anguished EXTREME public way possible. If that's not true justice, I don't know what is. His mercy was the most dramatic towards those with personal sins, saying, "neither do I condemn you," and "go and sin no more." If your life is spared by God HImself, you're not likely to continue down the same path. It's best not to delay turning our lives around--today is the day of salvation! He clearly said all through the Bible.
When Jesus was confronting many powerful issues in the house of a Pharisee, one, also referred to as a devil, who sneered at God's mercy towards the weeping sister at His feet, was pretty much commanded to leave His Presence: "LEAVE HER ALONE!"
and then excommunicated by his own free-will, choosing Hell by seeking revenge against Christ.
The reason why I'm not as extreme as some people in here, is I've been there and done that-- the heated debates, arguing for the sake of arguing. People are emotionally wounded by such judgmental condemnation. And by the description of "MadHermit," they also appreciate honest feedback from the Church.
I agree with the Methodist Churches decision, as long as they treat everyone equally, such as excommunicating married ministers for adultery. That's one reason the church is there-- to guide people on the path of salvation,
patiently, prayerfully, and lovingly if possible.
If we don't have friends who are courageous enough to give honest feedback, I think one Proverb says, "it's better to be rebuked by a true friend," it's human nature to "lean on our own understanding," and follow the path of least resistance, without Divine revelation.
Sometimes intervention is necessary.
The heterosexual male who thinks his wife will be ok with his porn addiction;
or his mistress;
Hoarding, alcohol, drugs, gambling, and anything else unhealthy.
Intervention helps people to at least take a look at their lives.
The United Methodist Church chose a path of intervention.
So did Martin Luther;
So did Martin Luther King Jr.;
So did John the Baptist;
So will the Catholic Church;
So do so many mothers, to save their children;
So did Jesus.
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I'm glad they made the decision too. The United Church back home in Canada had the same issue and it split the church in two. Sad to see when that happens.