Ummm, Miri, The Veranda is a by-invite group.
BUT, Steph, if you'd like to join us, you're more than welcome. We've been worrying with you and your family for the last couple of days. I'm not very knowledgeable about how infections affect the mind, but knew Miri was, and some others, so asked for the gals who knew about such things to come here and talk to you. That sprang a longer conversation on there then here, so if you are interested, just PM and I'll send you the invite. Only reason I haven't invited you yet was because I figured you'd get your support from Blain and your family, and with all your going through, didn't wanted to add to your time commitment.
Just PM me if interested, and no harm, no foul if you're not.