It is possible that others might benefit from scriptures we present. Sticking with the three "S's", Solomon said:
Ecc 11:4
He that observeth the wind shall not sow; and he that regardeth the clouds shall not reap.
Ecc 11:5
As thou knowest not what
is the way of the spirit,
nor how the bones
do grow in the womb of her that is with child: even so thou knowest not the works of God who maketh all.
Ecc 11:6
In the morning sow thy seed, and in the evening withhold not thine hand: for thou knowest not whether shall prosper, either this or that, or whether they both
shall be alike good.
When it comes to sowing the seed of God's word, we truly do not know whether it shall prosper, either this (sowing in the morning) or that (putting forth our hand in the evening), or whether they both shall alike be good. At the same time, however, when we encounter those who become hostile to our sharing of God's word, then it might be time to walk away from them.
Mat 7:6
Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.
When people trample God's word under their feet, and when they come at us with the intent to rend us, then it is time to walk away from them. Even with such people, this does not mean that God's word has missed its mark. In other words, God's word is likened to a two-edged sword in scripture, and it is designed to prick or cut people in their hearts.
Heb 4:12
For the word of God
is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and
is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
Some will be pricked or cut unto repentance.
Act 2:37
Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men
and brethren, what shall we do?
Act 2:38
Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Act 2:39
For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off,
even as many as the Lord our God shall call.
Act 2:40
And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward generation.
Act 2:41
Then they that gladly received his word were baptized: and the same day there were added
unto them about three thousand souls.
Act 2:42
And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.
Others will be pricked or cut to the point where they want to kill us, and I believe that I have discerned this type of murderous spirit in many different people over the years, and those people include many who profess to know Christ.
Act 5:33
When they heard that, they were cut to the heart, and took counsel to slay them.
Act 7:54
When they heard these things, they were cut to the heart, and they gnashed on him with
their teeth.
Anyhow, all that I am trying to suggest to you is that we need to recognize the major differences between these two classifications of people. With the first group, it may be warranted for us to stay in order to help them to grow in the Lord. With the second group, it may be warranted for us to walk away lest they waste our time and keep us from potentially helping others. Ultimately, we will all need to give an account before the Lord in relation to our stewardship of that which he has entrusted to us. Jesus wants his initial investment back with usury or interest, and this is made clear in his parable of the talents. Reality, as harsh or as sad as it may be, dictates that some people are good investments, and others are bad investments. Know the difference, and act accordingly, is all that I am really suggesting, and it is something that I regularly suggest to myself as well.
I need to add that we need to consider the feedback of others as well. No matter how good our own intentions are, it may be that we need correction ourselves. Weigh what others say to you before the Lord, and
let God be true, but every man a liar; as it is written, That thou mightest be justified in thy sayings, and mightest overcome when thou art judged (Rom. 3:4). In other words, our goal needs to be to present that which is right for the potential benefit of all; including ourselves. If we are presenting something wrong, no matter how well-intentioned we might be, then we need to humbly repent and adjust our own theology accordingly.